Cuppa tay!

𝕀’𝕧𝕖 𝔾𝕠𝕥 𝕄𝕪 𝕆𝕨𝕟 𝔹𝕒𝕔𝕜

Evening all

I haven’t published any late night blogs for a while.

I’ve been busy with life and a few things have changed for me.As life progresses we expect a lot of change, we have to expect change otherwise there will be no forward movement.

You find that where you are just isn’t enough anymore.

For me it isn’t my location it’s my actual life I’ve not been happy for a while and I’ve realised that if I keep going round on this hamster wheel I may never get off, it’s only certain aspects of my life I find I’m feeling a little stuck and undervalued.

So I’ve had to put plans in motion for change.

You can’t grow if you stay in the shade.

I’ve taken many risks in my younger years and many haven’t worked out but it was a massive learning curve for me.

Being a mum, someone’s daughter, sister and friend sometimes isn’t easy.

And to be honest I know I’ve been hard work at times.

I don’t answer phone calls, messages for days on end just way I am I live in my own little space sometimes it all gets a little to much.

Don’t get me wrong I’m a strange person I like love but also crave my own space, I can’t stand constant communication or talking all the time.

I get easily irritated by forced conversations and will withdraw and zone out if put in a position I don’t feel comfortable in.

I like people but only small group of people they will tend to be long term friendships I will only forge new friendships If I really want to.

I will literally help anyone anyway I can within reason.

But alot of people can’t take to me and my personality.

I used to let that affect the way I saw myself but now I don’t care I just let people think what they want to think.

They say when you stop pleasing others and start pleasing yourself that’s when life really takes flight.

That’s the truth your vibe will attract the right type of people to your life and repel the wrong type of people because that’s when you are truly aligned with yourself.

Now I don’t rely on anyone but myself .

I’m making things happen for myself and I will do whatever it takes to get to my own happiness.

I’m half way through writing my own book.

My blog is doing amazing

I have new opportunities all the time.

But I know down the line I will have to take more leaps of faith to see where it guides me but now I have my own back I will achieve anything.

Love to you all

Stacie xx

Blindsided

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Good Morning All

Its Saturday Which means its the weekend..

I awoke from not much sleep but Ive worked out coffee in hand I’m ready to be creative and let my passion flow.

Ive been getting a lot of emails and messages lately honestly I love getting messages from you all asking me for my guidance regarding your situations it makes me feel like I know what I’m talking about & also I like being helpful to other people.

I received an email of a lady in the U.S.A she had previously come across my blog and wanted my advice after her relationship of thirteen years ended abruptly.

I’m going to be honest I could feel her pain whilst reading her email one line that will always stick with me is I’m lost I really don’t know how I will carry on.

I just wanted to give her a hug because when your in love with someone and the feelings are no longer there on the partners side its a terrible feeling.

You just don’t know what you could of possibly done wrong, was you the actual problem all along.

Lets go over what the actual meaning of blindsided in love .

Blindside in love happens when one person thinks that everything is smooth and perfect in the relationship and suddenly the other person announces that they want to opt out. Being blindsided can shatter a person as it is unexpected and came without a warning.

We don’t see the red flags because we are so in love with someone we put them on a pedestal, it doesn’t matter what that person does to us we just don’t see the bigger picture.

Your Feelings Are Normal

When you fail to pick up any signs that your partner was unhappy in the relationship and then suddenly ends it, you are going to feel like you have been blindsided by a breakup.

It’s normal to feel total shock and disbelief that this is happening to you because you thought you were both happy.

You will torture yourself with endless questions wondering how did it all go wrong. All these feelings are normal and they will pass as you process this heart breaking event.

2. Don’t Blame Yourself

Aside from cheating or doing something equally as destructive in the relationship, you can’t take the full blame for being splitting up.

If your ex wasn’t happy, they should have spoken up and discussed the issues that were bothering them.

But some people feel it’s easier to walk away rather than work through the issues towards a better relationship. You might have just been unlucky enough to fall for one of these types.

3. Take Time For Yourself

Be kind to yourself as you process this breakup.

Your heart has taken quite a blow without warning and it’s going to feel as if your world has been flipped upside down.

Often, your self-esteem will take a steep nosedive because you are going to feel unloved and unwanted.

The best way to combat these negative feelings is to pamper yourself so you get mini boosts of happiness as you work your way through the emotional pain.

4. Be Happy With Other People

Keep misery to a minimum by hanging out with good friends that can give you a shoulder to cry on.

Do fun things that you enjoy to take your mind off the breakup.

It’s really easy to slip into depression when someone you love tells you that they don’t want to be with you.

Surround yourself with people who think positive and can cheer you up when you are hurting the most.

5. Don’t Waste Your Time Trying To Convince Them.

The last thing you should do is try to convince them that they have made a mistake. Although it may have come as a complete surprise to you, it’s highly likely they where thinking about exiting the relationship long before it happened.

They had gave it a lot of thought before they actually initiated the breakup.

At this point, they have had more time to process the painful emotions and has detached themselves from them.

6. Acceptance Wont Come Easy

Although it always takes some time to accept a breakup, this one is going to be particularly difficult because you weren’t expecting to lose them at all.

You will remember the most recent time that they said “I love you” and struggle with the idea that their feelings couldn’t have changed that quickly.

Worst of all is that you will expect them to come back to you, and many times they won’t. It’s best to think of that relationship as a chapter in your life that has come to an end unless they says otherwise.

7. Distract Yourself

Find distractions to keep your mind from drowning in memories of your old relationship.

After you have been through a blindsiding breakup, your mind is going to struggle and try to make sense of the whole situation, which will bring up many old memories.

Find things to distract yourself like find a new hobby, sign up for a class in something you have always wanted to learn or learn a new language. The goal is to distract yourself so you won’t constantly be tortured by thoughts of your ex.

The key is to work on yourself when you go through a situation like this not because you where the problem in the first place but because you deserve to be loved and understood being blindsided can really be a whirlwind process but you will get through it , it just takes time.

You will learn new things about yourself when your in a state of vulnerability but you must always remember not every relationship will be the same as your last so please don’t give up on love when the time is right you will know but for now take your time and get to know yourself.

Please don’t Hesitate to email me if you need my advice using contact box below .

I’m Sending you love.

Stacie xxx

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Weekly Spiritual Guidance Blog 28/08/2020 to 4/09/2020

Good Afternoon everyone.

I’m super excited to share this weeks spiritual guidance blog with you all.

Firstly I want to say that I really do hope that my guidance blogs helps all my readers in some way or another, I have had a spiritual gift for all my life and a huge interest in what come’s to us all after our passing for a very long time but I will save that for another blog.

My spiritual guidance blogs are all about you guys and me giving something back to you all as good will gesture for always taking the time out to read my blogs and support me in everything I do.

So lets get on with the legalities and get the boring stuff out the way first..

I have to state that all my guidance blogs are for entertainment purpose’s only .

My weekly guidance blogs are for all signs and elements, take what resonates and leave the rest to the universe .

Here we go..

I have a little message from the universe to everyone who’s really struggling with life at the moment.

Whilst connecting to gain clarity regarding your guidance today I was show a very clear image of a shadow person in front this shadow person two pathways formed as the vision got clearer I started to see more of a clearer outline of the shadow person, he was male , his expression on his face was somewhat of confusion and fear after a short while and hesitation…

I herd what path should I take the right one it seems less bumpy more plain sailing but what seeks me at the end is safe , unfulfilling in the long run it seems and easy less effort I have a dreaded feeling of regret.

He looks at the left path its full of bumps its looks scary full of uncertainties, dark corners great highs and steep lows he feels fear , excitement , great love and release from the ties of life.

As he stands there he knows he has to make a choice he can’t keep holding back in the darkness and floating about hoping everything will work out fine.

This is a very clear message I get for a lot of you, if you want something in life you have to make it happen it won’t just fall in your lap the universe doesn’t work like that you have to put the effort in .

If you want that dream job get of your butt start researching now on training , work on gaining skills and the opportunities’ will be endless.

If you have wanted a connection with someone emotionally for a while but you have always been held back by your own emotions and fear , speak your truth because it something wonderful can happen from just one honest truthful conversation if it works out great if it doesn’t no regret’s only lesson’s learnt.

Life doesn’t have a road map you don’t always need a plan because plans, people and situations can change just like the direction of the wind you need to live in the present and the now.

First Card

Four of Cups

Has the grass been looking greener on the other side?

The Four of Cups is a card that tells us we aren’t looking at the good things we already have in our lives, and instead are longing for what we could have.

When this card appears in your readings, it’s challenging you to stop daydreaming about what you could have in your life and instead count your blessings.

The Four of Cups is a warning that we need to be more appreciative of what we have, and show a little more gratitude towards the things we’ve already been blessed with.

When we become self-absorbed, and start taking what we have for granted, we tend to miss out on other opportunities.

The Four of Cups calls attention to the fact that while you are busy wondering about other things, you’re missing out on the chance to improve what you already have.

Second Card

Five Of Cups

The Five of Cups is a surprisingly complex card for being a part of the Minor Arcana.

It is depicted as five golden chalices, three of which have been knocked to their sides while the remaining two stay standing.

This card brings about confirmation of loss, sorrow, and despair, but also signifies that there is light at the end of the tunnel.

The three downed cups typically refer to the feelings you already have about your situation.

Whatever it may be that life has thrown at you, it can be hard to come to terms with not being able to put things back as they were.

The Cups suit is related to water, and you certainly cannot refill the fallen chalices with the water they already held.

The two chalices that have been untouched, however, promise that your situation can be salvaged, even if some of its parts have been changed.

Third Card

Page Of Swords

The Page of Swords is represented by a young man atop a hill, grasping a silver sword in both his hands.

Like the other Page cards of the Minor Arcana, he is still learning and growing.

Often he represents an actual young person in your life.

The Page of Swords stands for truth and justice, as well as open and honest communication.

He is likely to appear to those who are struggling between telling the truth and sparing someone’s feelings, or those who are having a hard time verbally expressing their emotions.

Its important that you express your emotions without fear of the outcome because your at greater risk of hurting yourself trying to keep others happy.

Forth Card

Page Of Wands

Generally speaking, the Page of Wands is in the area of having projects that come to fruition.

Something you initiated a while back starts to deliver positive results.

Another meaning that is to be considered frequently in a reading is that this Page represents a literal person in your life.

(S)he is a high energy person, a high-achiever that brings a positive vibe in your world.

Beware of lack of focus though.

Energy, success and enthusiasm are all good, but don’t take your eyes off the prize just yet.

Keep going keep achieving your hearts desires.

Fifth Card

Ace Of Cups

This card is generally depicted as a large golden chalice with water overflowing from within.

The Ace of Cups shows up in a reading when you have reached a point of emotional stability, happiness, and peace.

It is a reminder that you have good emotional intelligence and a strong foundation on which you are able to take on the world, usually with a smile on your face.

A present position Ace of Cups means that the path your life has taken is the best one for you.

Whether it’s your relationship, family life, or career, you are in a secure and stable place emotionally.

Whatever you’ve been doing, it’s working in your favour so keep at it.

Sixth Card

The World

This card is also about gaining more insight into what is your role in a bigger scheme of things.

It can be a big project, it can be the community you are part of and so on.

The meaning is that you are more in tune with the world around you.

There is a virtuous circle, i.e. the more success you have, the more connected you feel and the more you are motivated to contribute.

In terms of travel, the World can literally indicate that you may be traveling around the world. You may soon go for a long distance trip.

You may also receive a message from the Universe to be more open to take in elements from the world around you.

Try to become more receptive and expand your awareness.

Thank you for reading i hope you gained comfort and guidance from this weeks post.

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Sending Love to you all

Stacie xx

𝕋𝕙𝕖 𝔾𝕝𝕠𝕨 𝕌𝕡

Hiya Everyone

I hope you have had a great day I would like to say I have but that hasn’t been the case.

Do you know when you roll out of bed in the morning and you know its not going to be a great day both emotionally and physically, most the time these days I have my shit together.

But today I felt like the whole world was against me, my anxiety attacks are less and less these days since I’ve found my confidence back but still one slips through the cracks of that barrier that ive built so high around my soul and every now and again the old Stacie tries to remerge from the shadows and i have to rain her back into the darkness because that jush isn’t me anymore.

This blog post I’ve wanted to post for along time now and I’ve been putting it off for a while but i think its time to share it with you all.

To the people who know me in person who read my blog will understand exactly how I’ve been feeling and hopefully you will understand why I’ve needed to do what I have done to simply keep my head above water and to stop myself from drowning.

Up until the last six months Ive been at war with myself , my mind and my heart trying to align all three has been a battle and half.

I’ve always put others first and always put myself last just to make other people happy.

Ive loved and not always been loved back the old unrequited love is an arsehole.

I’ve sat there and listened and let someone pull me apart piece by piece for simply being me.

Ive kept calm when the fire inside me had raged.

I’ve been battered and bruised by my own self confidence.

Until that day comes and you think you know enough is enough I’m not taking this anymore.

I got up that morning in February and thought this is the last time i will allow my life and the people around me to control me..

It started with some external changes I was so determined to loose weight as that held my confidence back massively and I knew I had to drastically do something to achieve what i wanted so that was the first step for me.

So then the hair changed you always know when a women means business she changes her hair said coco channel , so that’s when my transformation really started when the red hair came along , that in itself gave me a lot of confidence.

Over the past 7 months i have worked on my surroundings and the company i kept.

I had taken a step back from anyone who brings drama to my life, I’m not about the drama, I just want a peaceful life.

One thing I realised when your going through a glow up is that some people will support you others will completely turn on you.

Ive been called nasty and evil plus lot more but i know that’s not me at all.

That’s the kind of people I haven’t got time for anymore.

We all go through bad times i know but its how we choose to evolve from it.

You see some people don’t like other people evolving due to their own insecurities, that’s when you realise that your energies are not meant to combine.

Your eyes open and you truly see people and situations that you once where involved with and think what the hell was i doing.

Transformation does that to you.

So what are my plans for the near future I’m sure that people will have something to say but you know what its my life my body I will do what makes me happy.

I don’t go into things blind I do my research..

so I’m fast approaching 33 and its time to start taking proper care of myself as vain as that sounds but again my choice, so i have been in touch with the Harley medical group to see if they will sort my loose skin from weight loss, that for me is a massive step in the mean time i will just have to put up with it.

Its ok people saying you look fine but its my choice i have to do what makes me happy and i would never go to the extreme.

So the glow up after such a rubbish time is amazing and I’m in this bubble at the moment where I feel untouchable from anything or anyone who caused me heartache and upset in the past.

If you like the new me then cool if you don’t then tough I’m never going back.

And I’m so proud of myself, I still have bad days and I know that one day someone will get me and will love me completely for just being me if given half the chance all I want to do is be happy but until then I’m like a elastic band I will always ping back ….

Love to you all

Stacie xxx

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Good Afternoon all.

I hope you are well, I just wanted to do a quick blog about a new exciting opportunity I have decided to progress forward with.

I’m not sure if any other fellow bloggers have come across the term guest blogging, but its Guest blogging, also called “guest posting,” is the act of writing content for another company or sole talent.

But why have I chosen to showcase other people’s business and talent’s I hear you ask.

I feel its extremely important to help each other grow there are times in life where we need to be selfish but when it comes to empowerment and recognising other peoples talents it doesn’t help to show your support.

All throughout my younger years ive built up my talent skills and I can really put my hand to mostly anything call me del boy but honestly there isn’t anything I wont try and learn to help with my own progression.

But what I lacked was support and people willing to help me grow so after a few failed attempts I know how gut wrenching it feels when you fail due to lack of support.

So here I am the universe gave me a sign to empower people and showcase their business and talents.

And it maybe only a small gesture of my own good will but from one small gesture can come some amazing opportunities.

All my life ive been selfless and I’ve always wanted to help others I suppose I wear my heart on my sleeve but I truly know how hard it is to be heard in a world that’s always so noisy.

So here is my pitch i hope it draws you in to work along side me lets help each other grow.

Once a month i will be giving away one free guest blog spot on my own blog seashells and lipgloss blog.

This post will stay on my blog indefinitely so that new readers will always be able read your blog and get to know your business and your talent’s leading them to choose to follow your journey through your own social media accounts and lead to potential clientele growth.

I’m looking for…

Artist’s , Musicians’, Photographer’s , All Small Businesses , Charites, Venues , Creative Writer’s.

I’m open to new talent opportunities also it doesn’t just have to be what’s listed above.

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Two Day Mini Break North West Uk

Good Evening All.

I hope you are all ok , sorry i haven’t blogged a lot during the last few days but i have been taking some time away from everyday life.

Living in the North West i feel so lucky to live by some amazing places to visit.

Growing up in the West Midlands we always had to travel along way to be by the seaside now i have it on my doorstep and i feel so lucky to be where i am in this present moment in my life.

So let me tell you about my two day break and how Covid 19 impacted it.

So a few weeks ago i decided that i was in need of a break away from home life , work and daily routines just so we could try and relax and recharge and actually spend some time together.

So I booked to go to the (Vegas of the North ) Blackpool ,Lancashire ( Fylde Coast)

Its not everyone’s cup of tea i couldn’t even get my dad there even if i bribed him but its something about its traditional seaside experience that draws millions of people to visit every year.

There is plenty to do in Blackpool but I’m going to be honest unless you need to pre plan and pre book tickets to attractions , otherwise you may need a small bank loan its always best to pre book for the best deals on tickets.

During my trip the weather wasn’t fantastic was windy but I’m not complaining its a break away.

Now lets get the Covid 19 experience out the way .

I have very mixed feelings as ive worked all through the pandemic like most key workers have , we have been used to a lot of changes on a daily basis.

Anyone who is still traveling during Covid will understand what I’m about to say.

The messages are mixed and what you need to understand is that as long as you do your bit and stick within the guidelines set by the venue and location you cant go wrong of course there is a risk in doing anything in life.

Wear a mask when stated , Sanitize Hands , use track and trace guidelines for each venue that’s how you can do you bit.

There will be queuing wherever you go within One or two meter rule depending on the company policies possible temperature checks to as long as you understand the procedure’s and do your part you can still enjoy your break.

But what you all need to know is that life must go on.

Lets get on with the fun part Blackpool Attractions.

The Golden Mile is the stretch of Promenade between the North and South pier full of attractions such as…

Sea life Centre (Merlin saver pass)

Madame Tussauds (Merlin saver Pass)

Blackpool Tower and Ballroom (Merlin saver Pass)

Blackpool Pleasure Beach

Ripley’s Believe it or Not

Sandcastles Waterpark

Coral Island

The Dungeons (Merlin Saver Pass)

It also has a great shopping Centre full of gift shops and high street brands.

Its a short bus ride to the neighbouring St Anne’s and Lytham .

Blackpool also holds three major event’s yearly a firework Competition, Illumination’s And Blackpool Air Show.

It also hosts a modern Clean Seafront with plenty of dining out and takeaway restaurant’s .

Lets get down to where to say…

Did you know .. The resort has over 3,000 hotels, guest houses and bed and breakfasts.

Between them, they offer over 90,000 rooms, more than most other UK cities.

I found a lovely hotel around three years ago just located in central Blackpool i have to give credit to the owners of Happy Return Hotel they have worked so hard on the hotel its truly fabulous and their service is amazing to a true credit to the Lancashire tourist board.

If your looking to stay somewhere that’s a home from home in a lovely clean modern establishment then this is the hotel for you i have posted link and pictures below for you all to see but i highly recommend The Happy Return hotel.

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Here are few pictures from My trip ..

I have posted links below to major Attractions Located in Blackpool.

https://www.visitbritainshop.com/world/blackpool-attractions-pass-the-big-ticket/

Sandcastle Waterpark

https://www.blackpoolpleasurebeach.com/

https://www.coralisland.co.uk/

I hope you find my blog interesting and helpful if your planning on paying a visit to the Vegas of the North that is known as Blackpool

Sending Love to you all

Stacie xxx

Weekly Guidance 21st August 2020 to 28th August 2020

Queen of Cups

The Queen of Cups in Tarot stands for being loving, tender-hearted, intuitive, psychic, and spiritual.

The Queen of Cups meaning is a combination of the positive water energy of all the Cups and the inward focus of a Queen.

She always has a loving and sensitive nature. She never reacts with impatience or anger, and she has a kind word for everyone. She is compassionate and lets her heart lead the way.

The Queen is more open to her inner knowledge and trusts her intuition. She reveres all aspects of the divine’s creation, loves and embraces everyone, and is moved by the tragedies and beauties of life.

you feel and think as she does. Have you received an intuitive message? Have you been moved by another’s pain? Are you aware of the emotional climate? Do you trust your own heart? The Queen of Cups encourages you to tap in to the feminine, and know that the women in your life have your back. She also wants you to treat yourself with kindness, compassion, and love.

2nd Card

Nine Of Wands

The Nine of Wands in Tarot stands for defensiveness, perseverance, stamina, resilience, and resistance. A look at the figure on the Nine of Wands card shows that he has been through certain battles. The figure is bandaged on his head and arm and supported by a crutch.

He might be hurt, but he is not down, He is still standing! Because he’s hurt, he may become defensive.

sign to proceed with caution because there is every possibility of being hurt, either physically or mentally. Defensiveness is natural if you have been hurt, but the trick is not to be bitter.

You now need to be more watchful. As you have been through travails, you have become stronger as well. Strength and stamina are other aspects of the Nine of Wands.

As a fighter, you need to be tough and have the inner stamina to persist, come what may.

This is the spirit of this card. The Nine of Wands wants you to keep going despite all odds. Do not give up, whatever the opposition. You have within you the strength to overcome. And yes, you could get hurt. You may have gone through rough times and gotten hurt, but you are still not defeated! Another quality of this card is resilience. Despite setbacks, you persist. You need to keep on going, irrespective of everything.

3rd Card

Eight of Cups

The Eight of Cups in Tarot stands for deeper meaning, moving on, and weariness.

The figure on the card is a man leaving on a journey, striking out on a new path. The card means that change could come in many forms. It could be physical, such as a job change, relocation, or change in relationships. Change could also refer to inner changes, such as replacing older patterns of thought with new ones.

When the Eight of Cups is upright in a Tarot, it is time to realize that the past is gone.

An end is approaching, and what was thought to be permanent is no longer so. It is time to accept the change that is staring you in the face. The card signals that it’s time to move on. The only thing permanent in life is change, and everything slips away sooner or later.

4th Card

Three of Wands

The Three of Wands , it’s time for you to take the long view of things, just as the figure on the card is standing on a cliff and looking at the distant mountains across the sea.

From atop the cliff, from that great height, the figure sees all that lies ahead. This card represents vision. With vision, you gain perspective.

Don’t react in the heat of the moment, but rather step back and reconsider. Dream beyond your current perspective and look at the greater picture. It could be an indication of things to come.

You should be confident in your vision. Fearlessly explore new areas. Do not set your sights too near. Behave like a true leader and show the way.

The Three of Wands also represents exploration. Explore, but do it with full awareness.

5th Card

Seven Of Wands

The Seven of Wands in Tarot stands for defiance, defense, aggression, conviction, and valor.

Aggression and defiance are both represented by the Seven of Wands as two sides of the same coin. Some of the cards that reinforce the qualities of the Seven of Wands are the Five of Wands, Nine of Wands, and Five of Swords

When the Seven of Wands is upright in a Tarot reading, you could be involved in a conflict.

Some conflicts may be worth fighting, but others are just trouble.

You need to check if it is worth fighting, if it will serve your purpose. Only then do you need to defend your position by being bold and aggressive.

This card asks you to take a stand, an act that will change the energy flow for better or for worse. Most of the time events carry everyone forward along with the flow.

At times, people want to resist and change the course of the flow entirely. When taking a stand, you start an energy of resistance. If you become aggressive, your opponent becomes defiant.

But before you take a stand, you must believe in yourself and in your position. Otherwise, let the conflict go. Fight only if it is worth fighting, even if you’ve already invested time and energy in it. If your cause is just, stand by your convictions as indicated by the Seven of Wands

6th Card

knight of Wands

The Knight of Wands in Tarot stands for being charming (superficial), self-confident (cocky), daring (foolhardy), adventurous (restless), and passionate (hot-tempered). Where on the one hand, the Knight of Wands is full of energy and never seems to be afraid to try new things.

On the other hand, he seems too sure of himself and his abilities. Although others may be baffled by his crazy stunts, his courage and passion are still admired.

The Knight of Wands tends to be shallow, and one can’t expect deep commitment from him. He is reckless and irresponsible and acts without thinking. This gets him into trouble. The Knight of Wands also delivers spiritual messages.

.When the Knight of Wands is upright in a Tarot reading, it may suggest that you or someone else connected with the situation (or the atmosphere in general) has a confident and passionate style, just as the Knight of Wands does.

The only thing to check is whether this “energy” of the Knight is helpful or not. Is it confidence or cockiness you feel? Are you (or is your company) rushing into something without preparation (which could be risky)? This could be a time for a change, for balance. If this energy is missing, then it might be the time to try something new, maybe have some fun.

The Knight of Wands could be an indication to go out for some adventure, some excitement, some risk. Only you can decide if the Knight’s energy is helpful or wanting.

If you are dealt this card, check to see whether your confidence is really cockiness. Do you feel angry and impatient all the time? If this style of the Knight is evident, you probably need to rebalance. It might be time for a change instead of rushing into something risky without any preparation.

If you are missing the Knight’s energy, you might need to try something new. If you have been working hard, maybe it’s time to go and have some fun.

I hope you enjoyed your weekly guidance post please feel free to comment below if you have any questions or extra clarity.

Love to you All

Stacie xxx

𝔹𝕒𝕔𝕜 𝕥𝕠 𝔹𝕒𝕤𝕚𝕔𝕤 𝕃𝕠𝕧𝕖 & 𝔻𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕘

Good evening all.

I trust you are all well , and starting to get back to some sort of normality.

Tonight’s article i feel will be relatable to a wide audience , its that part of our lives we can find extremely confusing and also heart-breaking yes its love and relationship’s.

I get lots of messages from my readers asking for advice regarding love and relationship’s , I’m no dear Deidre but ive had my own share of heartbreak and confusion.

First i want to say to you all that read this article proceed with an open mind its just advice and my own added personal experience’s, so lets get to it.

The daunting experience of love and relationship’s it can leave us in quite a confused state , love makes us do things we wouldn’t normally do it can either evolve us or destroy us.

It all depends on how we react to certain situations, we live in a world were we are forced to always do the right thing the respectable thing even if sometimes it makes ourselves unhappy .

When it comes to finding another human being that we are compatible with it can be like finding a needle in a haystack.

Lets just address the elephant in the room here and just make something clear , there isn’t such thing as a perfect partner everyone has faults.

So lets throw away the perfect partner check list out shall we and be realistic here.

Dating isn’t anything like it used to be its all swipe left swipe right these days, There is an app for all sorts of things these days but are dating apps actually a useful tool to help you find the perfect partner.

Do you want me to be perfectly honest here… I’m going to say no sorry tinder …

I know some people may not agree here but remember what i said previously remain open minded.

I just think dating apps show pictures and its all about first impression’s on people and superficial looks.

How can you really get to know people from just a short bio of themselves on a site with millions of users.

It isn’t possible I’m not saying lets go back to the 1930’s what I’m trying to say is times have moved on but it still doesn’t hurt to use some of the traditional dating method’s.

So what if your already in a love connection and your unsure on what you want from your connection together.

If you find yourself in a connection where your unsure if you see future progress with that person the key is communication don’t waste your own time or the other parties time , because we all know that time is precious and you will never get it back.

Its always best to be honest and upfront i know sometimes its not easy to cause others heartbreak but you could be potentially be holding yourself and your partner back from finding more compatible connections.

I know its sad but sometimes we need to let go in order to progress.

This part of the article connects to everybody who maybe talking to someone and are having mixed signals from the other party.

Have you been talking a lot lately and all of a sudden communication slows down or do they completely go ghost on you well here are a few tips that i have learnt myself over the years.

Don’t make yourself so easily available to them, I know how it goes you get that texted message and you think oh i have to texted back straight away DONT!!!! there isn’t a law on how long you should wait to texted back but don’t make yourself so easy to be reachable.
They must understands that you need to study or hang out with friends or family, you need your own space it’s not healthy to spend 24 hours a day every day together.

Set Boundaries The right man or lady will step up to the plate and bring their A game. By conveying how you wish to be treated you are setting yourself up as the exceptionally high value human being that you are.
The three day texted rule this one’s for you if your being subjected to the ultimate male code of treat them mean keep them keen let’s ignore them for three days and see what happens rubbish, well lads your theory is outdated as the ark, by doing this incredibly silly tactic you could possibly make them loose complete interest in you sorry but we want consistency alongside space don’t confuse the two.

After going through my own in depth dating experiences .

That’s when I realized that as a society, we don’t teach our people about the things each of us desires most. We all want love.

We want relationships.

We want to grow.

This is what we imagine can happen in a great relationship, but most of us haven’t deleted our unconscious relationship programming.

To change those habits into new ones, we have to do it with our hearts, not just our minds. Knowing something isn’t the same as being someone new.

Love can be a beautiful experience if we allow ourselves to be honest with our own feelings , there isn’t any wrong or right way to date someone but you have to feel it in both your heart and mind, Both working symmetrically and in harmony .

Love to you All

Stacie xx

𝕎𝕙𝕒𝕥 𝕎𝕠𝕦𝕝𝕕 𝕪𝕠𝕦 ℂ𝕙𝕒𝕟𝕘𝕖 𝕀𝕥 𝕋𝕠..

Hello all

I hope you are all well i know

I always start my blogs of the same way i suppose i want people to know that wherever you are in the world I’m sending my well wishes .

Sometimes just a few words can completely change someone’s day.

As i sit in my new office cup of tea in hand my imagination goes wild its always this time of night where i feel like i can actually breathe sometimes its the simple things in life us humans need just to soothe the soul.

Its not about what you have left behind or what’s in your future its about where you are now in the present that’s all that counts.

I’m going to share with you all a short story about Harry and Mark.

It was a perfect summers day in the height of a busy dinner hour an elderly gentleman called Harry sits down on his usual bench in City Hall Park .

The bench held special memories of when Harry and his dearly beloved wife Susie used to sit and watch the world go by.

After Harry’s wife passed away he would always keep up their daily routine just because to him that was Harry’s happy place.

At that exact moment in the finance district was Mark after a busy morning of meetings and Linda from H.R spoiling his $900 suit he had already had enough of the day.

Escaping the hustle of the office and the noise of the city he found himself in City Hall Park.

Where he sat next to Harry they exchanged a simple hello.

But Harry could see the strain on Marks face, Tough day huh ?

Mark replied a little , sometimes i don’t know what its all for ?

You have a little bit more life experience any advice Mark asked Harry.

Yes of course i do ? but its only advice said Harry.

Do you have regrets Harry, plenty but its in the past i can’t change the past he replied.

Do you look to the future said Mark , not really Harry replied the future is never set in stone it can change in an instant.

So what do you look to asked Mark, Harry simply replied the present.

The present said Mark !!!

You need to look at what’s around you in the present moment are you happy are you alive or just existing , are you in love and have you ever found yourself even in the darkest of places.

Because know this one thing what’s important in life can’t be brought like real love ,trust , inner peace and time.

Mark said I’ve not really thought about it in that way before Harry , I’m in a relationship but I’m under a lot of pressure to take the next step, and I’m not sure if she’s the one , Harry replied.

If you love her you will know you will feel it deep down in the pit of your stomach if she is the one if you don’t feel it you have your answer.

I also work to hard and long hours i don’t see my family enough i don’t take vacation’s , im simply relied on by my boss to give 100% all the time and it’s so exhausting.

Harry replied simply tell him no and take a vacation go see your family.

Work will always be there when you get back but your loved ones won’t always be here, you simply need to find balance.

Find out what’s important to you and let everything else go.

What would a random Old man who hasn’t got time on his side say to his younger self.

He would say son fall in love whenever possible, don’t work so hard, and use your time wisely.

Change what doesn’t seem to fit and take risks.

That afternoon on that bench in City Hall Park words of wisdom were exchanged and lives were changed forever.

Sometimes all we need is a little bit of direction and a fresh mindset to make changes don’t ever feel weak for asking advice even if it’s from a complete stranger.

Be open and listen it just might change your life.

Love to you all
Stacie xx

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My Under The Stairs Office

Good Afternoon Everyone .

I hope you are all well and having a great weekend.

Today I’ve been busy finishing my own little office space ,i needed somewhere i could use to be creative other than blogging from my bedroom or my sofa.

My home isn’t a huge house its three bedroom home with two sitting areas there isn’t much space to call your own other than my bedroom.

But its home and its mine.

Having two children can kind of take over the place and ive always put them first so mum needed some space to be creative and in between a day time job i also run my blog , and my custom apparel business.

So life can become pretty madness at times as you can imagine.

I had been wanting to create a small office space for a while but I was debating on where and how I was going to achieve it on a budget .

So i have two storage cupboards in my hallway which where absolutely full of crap that no one wanted but i couldn’t be bothered to sort through and throw away but i finally got round to sorting it all out and i had a empty space a blank canvas if you like.

I had a budget of £200 which I’m happy to say i was under budget by £76.01, money saving always makes me happy.

I’m going to show you before and after picture …..

Desk was from Argos £50 , Chair also Argos £12

Paint and glitter was both from B& M bargains so was my flooring £20

My accessories Were from both Home Bargains & B& M Bargains

Wire Shelving £10 , Various Stationary and storage boxes £20

Candles and faux Plants £5

Wall stickers Where from Ebay Seller Kruger Stickers £3.49 for 90 Dalmatian Spots .

Lighting Are Battery powered and from Home Bargain’s £3.99 for three and they are so bright they also come with a remote.

Overall its not taken that long and i did have a bit of help.

I’m happy now i have a place to blog and be creative and also market my business.

Now i can get on with other projects i have been putting off for a while.

Have a fabulous evening all , im now going to relax with a classic amaretto and coke maybe cheeky whiskey in the mix.

Love to You All

Stacie xx

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