Cuppa tay!

𝔻𝕠 𝕐𝕠𝕦 𝕎𝕒𝕟𝕥 𝕋𝕠 𝕜𝕟𝕠𝕨 𝔸 𝕊𝕖𝕔𝕣𝕖𝕥 𝔻𝕠 𝕪𝕠𝕦 ℙ𝕣𝕠𝕞𝕚𝕤𝕖 ℕ𝕠𝕥 𝕥𝕠 𝕋𝕖𝕝𝕝.

Hello and happy Friday here from lovely sunny Merseyside.

I hope you are all ok whatever you have planned for today i really hope you have a wonderful day.

I’ve just finished my morning workout and i felt inspired to blog so here i am coffee at the ready.

If your hoping for juicy gossip going from my blog title unfortunately I’m not allowed to tell all at the moment that’s for another article when i’m ready to share but admit its caught your attention hasn’t it .

I wanted to connect to all my fellow bloggers or newbies that are just starting out.

To give insight into how ive progressed with my blog and what’s helped me along the way.

I’m going to start of by saying welcome to your own special place on the internet where you can completely be yourself , yes you heard that correctly you can be yourself.

One thing i have learnt from blogging is that its perfectly fine to express yourself but use your experience’s and your words constructively.

Depending on what type of blogger you see yourself as people tend to stick to relatively the same category i.e fashion , travel , reviews etc.

With me i prefer to just be a lifestyle blogger i can pick and choose from a wide range of subjects that i can create article’s from and hopefully my readers can engage and relate to them .

Trying to find your niche can be tough but once you have the hang of it , its pretty much straight forward.

Remember that blogging can be a form of therapy to, it’s worked better for me than any therapist has.

Its your experience’s that really connects with your readers being completely open helps you engage better with your blogging community to.

Ive been blogging since April 2019 and at first my reach to my readers was relatively slow but after a few months the number of readers started to get higher and higher.

Ive never been fantastic at English or spelling as I’ve openly admitted in previous posts but who cares that’s what spell check is for right…

When i first started my blog i was going through a very bad time in my personal life with no outlet to get all my emotions out but i used my blog to constructively express myself trying my hardest to leave certain experiences out of my blog due to legal obligations .

So why did i choose a name I hear you all say rather than just call my blog by my own name well its because mine is a brand not just Stacie.

And Stacie is pretty boring just kidding.

Call it my alter ego…

Seashells and Lipgloss comes from my two favourite things and it also links my location within my blog.

Seashells because i live by the seaside and I love it and lipgloss because who doesn’t love lipgloss and the fact i don’t go anywhere with out it.

Fits perfectly for me lets get with how this article can help you find your way in the blogging network .

Coming up with great tagline titles really does help i sometimes use song lyrics , quotes or my own depending on what subject I’m blogging about and if it’s a article , poetry or product review.

Deciding if your going to be completely truthful or to try curve your words to fit to your audience.

I choose to be my authentic self I’m very vocal in my every day life i always state if its an over 18 post because i feel its important to give people a heads up if they choose not to engage that’s fine not everyone likes cussing .

Using gifs oh how i love a gif who doesn’t i love using them i’m well known for using them to as my other blogging platform community tells me #fashionpotluck.

There catchy i love them.

Using your own pictures is always a must especially if your advertsing a product being authentic is important and don’t be afraid to blog as many times as you like a day its your blog.

I try to blog at least once a day to try and keep my viewers interested but someone times life takes over and your not able to so don’t worry if you can’t blog everyday.

Coming to the end of my article I want you to all know that if you write a blog and its important to you then it really doesn’t matter what other peoples views are its your thoughts you send out to the universe and out on your blog.

People are not forced to engage they choose to by their own free will.

So just write your heart out and remember each experience makes us stronger.

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Love to you all

Stacie xx

𝔽𝕚𝕟𝕕 𝕠𝕦𝕥 𝕨𝕙𝕠 𝕪𝕠𝕦 𝕒𝕣𝕖 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕕𝕠 𝕚𝕥 𝕠𝕟 𝕡𝕦𝕣𝕡𝕠𝕤𝕖.

Evening all 💓

It’s me again I hope you’re all well.

Blogging from a moody rainy Merseyside today.

Apart from my morning blog,doing a bit of singing therapy and maybe feeding myself I haven’t done much else if I’m honest.

But that’s what time out is meant for.

One thing I have watched today is a documentary on the fabulous Dolly Parton I do love a good documentary I have to admit especially when it’s about one of my idols.

One thing I learnt from this documentary is that even if others perceive you to be superficial you know deep down your truly at peace with yourself dispite what others may think or say about you.

In the past I’ve done previous articles on following a crowd in life doing what others do just to seek approval.

But this blog isn’t about this same subject again it’s about going through a whole lot of heartbreak and finding peace with what you have learnt along the way.

Using the pain and turning it into progression to better ourselves.

One of dolly’s famous sayings is if you want the rainbow you have to put up with the rain.

That’s so true because you don’t get the good without the bad and the bad without the good eventually it has to balance out.

It’s all an equal give and take…

Unless it’s all taking and no giving…

The past few months I’ve learnt alot about myself and the company I keep. And one of the hardest lessons I’ve learnt is that ain’t nobody going to support yourself but you.

I’m grateful for all the love I’ve been shown and I’m grateful for the lessons I’ve had to learn some have been harder to deal with than others.

But neitherless I had to learn them in order to move on.

I’m going to keep going keep progressing weither people support me and the choices I make.

I’m nearly 33 and few things I’ve realised just lately are..

Doesn’t matter what you do in life someone will always have something to say.

You can’t help who you fall in love with.

It’s OK to feel down at times it’s not end of the world.

Sometimes you have to let go even though you don’t want to.

It’s OK to move on its OK to be happy.

And self love doesn’t mean your full of yourself.

You just have to keep being yourself and keep going forward in order to progress ain’t nothing in your past worth breaking your heart over.

I maybe an emotional lunatic I maybe a hopeless wonderer and…

Yes I’ve made my mistakes I’ve made a few..
But listen and understand
My mistakes are no worse than yours
Just because I’m a woman.

Sending Love to you all

Stacie xxx

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ℍ𝕖𝕒𝕝𝕥𝕙 𝔹𝕖𝕟𝕖𝕗𝕚𝕥𝕤 𝕠𝕗 𝔸𝕡𝕡𝕝𝕖 ℂ𝕚𝕕𝕖𝕣 𝕍𝕚𝕟𝕖𝕘𝕒𝕣

Todays Article highlights the health benefits when applying Apple Cider Vinegar to you’re daily diet routine.

I must make you aware that this post is strictly from a non professional view I’m not a doctor its my own views on the product alone.

I decided to add Apple Cider Vinegar to my diet when I first started my exante diet program.

Ive seen remarkable changes in my health and wellbeing just from applying this wonderful product to my daily diet.

So lets get straight to it.

What is the consistency of Apple Cider Vinegar?

Apple cider vinegar is fermented juice from crushed apples. Like apple juice, apple cider vinegar may contain various vitamins and minerals, as well as dietary fibre.

Apple cider vinegar may also contain acetic acid and citric acid. But it can be hard to know exactly what’s in some apple cider vinegar products.

When purchasing Apple Cider Vinegar must have the mother still present.

Raw vinegar with the mother contains probiotics, enzymes and nutrients. These things are removed through filtering and heating.

This is why its important to purchase a raw product in order to receive full health benifits from it

Lets us now move on to the health benefits of Apple Cider Vinegar shown below 👇👇

I have definitely noticed its help my bloating stomach after eating.

I also feel fuller after each meal.

It’s helped my skin and my hair growth and I now have a lot more energy.

It’s definitely helped with my blood sugar levels.

Now on to the method of actually consuming apple cider vinegar.

Never consume straight from the bottle always dilute in water I normally fill a half pint glass half way up with water then add the apple cider vinegar
A typical dose is 1–2 tablespoons (15–30 ml) mixed with water and taken before or after meals.

I sometimes use it on my salads too.

I feel its definitely helped me loose weight alongside my diet plan it just works well together and it’s only three calories so not bad in all.

The taste isn’t fantastic but nothing that’s good for you ever is I normally just take a shot and it’s over with.

Then I’m ready to go about my day.

You can purchase apple cider with the mother at any health food store or local supermarket.

I normally get mine from aldi supermarket.

It’s relatively cheap so apple cider gets a…..

From me give it a go but there is plenty of more scientific resources available online you can research before you buy.

Please check out side effects before use.

I hope I’ve enlightened you all to give it a go you will see amazing results.

Love Stacie xx

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𝔾𝕚𝕧𝕖 𝕄𝕖 ℍ𝕒𝕚𝕣 𝕄𝕒𝕤𝕜 ℝ𝕖𝕧𝕚𝕖𝕨

Good evening everyone…

I hope your all doing well.

It’s review time and I know a few of you all have been waiting for this one.

Tonight I will be reviewing the famous give me argan oil & coconut oil hair mask.

You might have seen the give me range literally everywhere all over your social media its becoming one of the most popular brands at the moment it also has many celebrities also reviewing their products.

I’m going to give you a short update on my own hair pre lock down I was jet black I promised myself when I hit my two stone weight goal that I would go red and that’s what I did..

Just a little Disclaimer…

Please know that I’ve had many years experience and training in hairdressing so I completely trust what I’m doing to my own hair.

But for any of you who don’t have training please seek advice and services from a professional.

I can’t strongly suggest that enough to you.

So after pre lightning my hair ready for my bright red semi permanent colour to be applied.

I kind of fried parts of my hair and my split ends where terrible due to the pre lighter so I went out brought several hair masks to help get my hair condition back to normality.

I always stick to certain products but I was at the point where of I would try literally anything to get my hair back to being silky and smooth before the pre lighting.

I has seen this product all over my news feeds on all social media platforms.

I had watched celebrities say how much they loved the products.

I have to be honest I did think well you can purchase similar products on the High Street so what makes this product special?

Well it’s my second time I’ve used it and all I have to say is wow.

I’m not kidding you it’s the best hair mask I’ve ever purchased and applied to my hair.

And I’ve used alot of products in the past with all the colour and damage I’ve caused my hair over the years.

Here is a little bit more about the product itself.

Give Me’s Hair Mask blends natural Argan Oil and Coconut Oil to help provide that smooth & silky feel. The scent, condition and elasticity experienced after use will leave you wanting more and more!

Benefits

Moisturises & Revitalises Dry Damaged Hair
Smoothes and Repairs
Deep Conditioning
Salon Finish

Directions

Apply Hair Mask on towel-dried hair and gently massage onto the scalp from the roots to the tips. Allow it to remain on hair for 10-15 minutes. Subsequently, rinse thoroughly with water. Suitable for all Hair types. Use as and when you require.

100ml for multiple use depending on hair type.

Honestly it’s amazing I don’t think I will use any other hair mask now except for this amazing product.

It really does give you salon finish hair at home.

The smell is gorgeous too which is a massive bonus for me it’s also leaves your hair feeling clean and non greasy afterwards unlike some hair masks on the market.

At the moment this product is on sale for £9.00 excluding postage.

To purchase yours today follow link below I promise you that you will not be disappointed with your purchase.

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Love to you all.

Stacie xxxx

𝕊𝕖𝕝𝕗 ℝ𝕖𝕗𝕝𝕖𝕔𝕥𝕚𝕠𝕟

Evening all…

I hope you’re all well.

I thought I would share my last thoughts of the day with you all.It’s a topic that I feel I need to address.

It’s self reflection!!!But what is self reflection?

The activity of thinking about your own feelings and behaviour, and the reasons that may lie behind them.

It’s extremely hard to be excepted as a human being for being completely at peace with who you are and confident in your own skin.

To many people think being happy with just being you can give across the wrong impression.

Many see it as egotistical , big headed behaviour and annoying to be around someone who’s so sure about who they are.

This is where I get a little bit ranty.I apologise in advance…

But I don’t feel its anybodies business what anyone else chooses to do with their life, their body or their time.

People are so quick to be judgemental over others and what they choose to do in life.

Not everything needs peoples opinions if you don’t like what you see simply scroll past ignore get on with you’re day.

It doesn’t effect you but how you approach that person in question might have a dramatic impact on their self esteem.

Sometimes you don’t need to say anything at all in fact it can show you’re own insecurities that you’re then trying to project on to someone else.

That’s not fair.

One thing that really annoys me.

People can spend a lifetime hating who they see staring back at them in the mirror.

One second they start loving themselves it’s egostical, big-headed, full of themselves.

They don’t see how hard a person has worked on themselves to even show themselves an ounce of Selflove.

Don’t dim someone else’s light to make yours appear brighter.

Your one negative comment can undo all someones hard work.

Instead of bringing people down empower them.

I don’t look fantastic all the time take away the hair extensions the make up & eyelashes.

I look like a badgers arse but guess what I love myself enough not to care.

My pictures are promotional and I don’t care who says they don’t use photo filters they are absolutely liars.

Everyone does no one is perfect.But one thing that remains true to me is that after so many years of hating myself I’ve finally found out who I am.

And I’m comfortable with saying I love who I’ve become and the old me is never coming back however hard anyone tries to break me.

And if people can’t understand that then tough.

Just please if you don’t like what you see in people’s life’s judgement isn’t always needed when you don’t know people’s background.

Please understand that that’s their journey it’s not meant for you.Just scroll past a don’t be judgemental.

Love to you all ❤️

Stacie x

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𝕎𝕖𝕖𝕜𝕝𝕪 𝔾𝕦𝕚𝕕𝕒𝕟𝕔𝕖 𝔹𝕝𝕠𝕘 𝟚𝟘/𝟘𝟟/𝟚𝟘𝟚𝟘

Good Afternoon everyone…

I haven’t written a weekly guidance blog post for a while firstly I must apologise.

Ive been so busy trying to restore my own soul ive had to pull my energy back and concentrate on myself for a while.

I have to state that all weekly guidance posts are for entertainment only just remember all energy is fluent so if you find yourself reading this blog after the 27th of August it can still resonate with you.

My guidance posts are for all signs and elements.

Take what resonates and leave what’s doesn’t.

Today I’m using the Rider Waite Tarot Deck.

So let’s start…

First Card is… Queen of cups

The queen of cups well she’s the keeper of the key’s to emotions and mental wellbeing.

She plays a significant role in everyone’s soul connections and bring forth clarity and understanding of ones own heart.

It’s time to start listening to your own inner guidance and feelings .

The Queen of Cups can denote special care that is being given to you.

This might come in the form of supportive family member or partner. You may be feeling under the weather, but you can rely on this support system to hold you up.

With their help, you will be feeling back to normal in no time at all.

The Queen of Cups signifies compassion, love, and caring for others. It is an overall positive card and is associated with support and commitment.
Second Card is Ace of Swords

In a general context, the Ace of Swords represents new ideas, new beginnings, new projects, new plans and breakthroughs.

It also indicates intellectual ability, mental clarity, clear thinking and the ability to concentrate.

It signifies communication, vision, force, focus and intensity communication is needed in order to transform and allow yourself to heal.

It represents making correct decisions, being assertive and justice and authority and speaking your truth in order to progress.

The Ace of Swords can indicate good news in relation to legal matters or legal contracts.

Ace of Swords card tells you that you will get to the truth of the matter and breakthrough the fog that has been clouding your ability to see this situation clearly.

be honest and speak up for yourself is crucial if you want to have the outcome you deserve.
Third Card Page Of Pentacles

The Page of Pentacles is the bearer of good news in earthly matters such as money, business, education, career, property or health.

It represents making a solid start or laying the foundation for future success. The message with this Minor Arcana card is to decide what you want and really go for it.

Jump in and seize your opportunities while you can. It tells you that if you make the right decisions now and put the groundwork in you will achieve your long terms goals.

You may find yourself thinking about your long term future its time to make progression in your life and there is no time like the present.

Its time to let go of fear and allow yourself to make the changes you need in order to make changes within your life.
Fourth Card The Chariot

The Chariot tarot card is one of the toughest tarot in the deck it tells you that now is the time to get what you want.

Consider this card as a sign of encouragement.
The Chariot tarot card is all about overcoming obstacles and achieving your goal through determination, focus, and willpower.

You will feel motivated, ambitious, and in control.
This will help you to get a stagnant situation moving again and overcome all the challenges that may be in your path.
Just keep focused and believe in your own abilities and you will achieve your goal.

The Chariot tells you that a triumph is waiting for you and that you are fully in control of making it happen.

Most important message here is to keep the willpower going to get where you need to be focus on that and you can achieve anything.
Fifth Card Temperance

When the Temperance card shows up in a reading its telling you not to make quick decisions on impulse.

You need to sit and think have some quite time before making a hasty decisions that may cause more issues rather than solutions.

You need to understand however hard you may want a solution to be fixed it may not be able to be fixed and upon that you need to let go of emotions of anger , upset and frustration.

And making the best of what you have don’t cry over spilt milk.
Sixth Card The Star

The Star brings hope, renewed power, and strength to carry on with life.

It shows how abundantly blessed you are by the universe as evidenced by the various things around you.

Remember that you hold within you all that you need for your fulfilment – the only thing that you need is courage.

For this, you have all reasons to rejoice.

To see this card is a message to have faith, for the universe will bless you and bring forth all that you need.

The star card means that you have gone and passed through a terrible life challenge.

You have managed to go through this without losing your hope.

While you suffered, you perhaps were not aware of your own strength, but you are now perhaps recognizing that the loss helped you discover your own resilience and inner power.

It is only now that you can really appreciate all that you have.

I really hope you have enjoyed this weeks guidance blog feel free to drop me a comment and say hi.

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Love and Light

Stacie Leanne xx

𝕋𝕙𝕖 𝕄𝕖𝕟𝕥𝕒𝕝 𝔸𝕤𝕡𝕖𝕔𝕥 𝕆𝕗 𝕎𝕖𝕚𝕘𝕙𝕥 𝕃𝕠𝕤𝕤

Afternoon everyone.

I wanted to share a blog with you all this afternoon about my mental issues and my weight loss.

I know quite a few people that would benefit from this blog post so I decided to share my thoughts and experiences surrounding the Mental affects of loosing weight and how I’ve been dealing with it.

I hope whoever reads my blog will find it helpful.

Isn’t it just fabulous when you loose weight.

In just over seven months I’ve managed to loose three and a half stone on the exante diet.

I couldn’t be any happier I’ve actually achieved something and most importantly have actually stuck to a diet by the third week I’ve normally given up but no I was determined to do it so I have.

I’ve had the odd blip along the way but that’s normally when I’m under stress and I have to say won’t give my Sunday dinners or the odd gin up for no one that’s my weekly treat.

One thing I’ve had issues with is clothes and my mental health.

I haven’t had a problem purchasing clothes at times I’ve thought oh lord somebody take my bank card off me.

But what I’ve have had issues with is the mental side of loosing weight.

My whole style has changed because I no longer feel that I need to cover up every part of my body.

Or look in the mirror and hate the way I see myself.

One of the issues I’ve had is when I’ve been shopping online I’ve been automatically looking at my original pre weightloss size it happens everytime I still forget even now.

It’s so nice to to say I can’t purchase that as its not in a plus size range.

Not that I’m being biased about other ranges.

But after so long of liking clothing that I would feel silly in due to my size.

I can now shop anywhere and know I will find something I will like in my new size and feel amazing in the style and colours of my choice.

Instead of looking like a member of the adams family.

Now I don’t have to feel that way any more but again your mind can have a negative impact on your desired outcome if you let it.

I popped out today to a bit of essential and non essential shopping.

Its been a while since I’ve set foot in a proper clothing store other than primark.

So I decided to go into newlook my local store in town hasn’t got a plus size range but I’ve always gone for the biggest size they stock.

Looking through the clothing racks not touching anything was hard expecially when you’re trying to work out sizes.

But needs must my brain was saying to me you need biggest size they have.

I actually stood their for a while thinking what the hell am I doing I don’t need the biggest size anymore.

Put my normal size back and picked up my new clothing size.

I’m not sure if I will get used to being a small size its been a very long time since I’ve been in a smaller size.

I cannot express how emotional I am to be able to get my whole bottom half of Me in a size 14 trousers from a store like new look and know I’ve achieved that outcome from my own determination.

Normally i wouldn’t of been able to get my ankles in a size 14 never mind my whole bottom half of my body.

It’s so difficult to train your own mind after years of negative thoughts about your own body.

It’s affected me both mentally and physically and its also affected my relationships with past partners.

Really knocked my confidence.

But In time I hope I can change my shopping mindset still i can’t believe I’m a completely different person and with the transformation still ongoing I just suppose it will take some getting used to and a whole lot of Selflove.

Today’s purchase #newlook

Love to you all.

Stacie xxxx

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𝕃𝕠𝕔𝕜𝕤

Here I stand by the Albert docks upon lines and lines of rusty locks.

Worn away by the sands of time.

Withstanding the rain the frost and sunshine.

Each one holds a story not for us to tell.

Of lovers still dear and others farewell.

As I stand here on the Albert docks amongst the lines of rusty locks.

I hear a city that’s full of laughter.

For the love they hold for every new chapter.

Embrace the new and forgive the past.

For every lock that’s placed forever it will last.

Here I stand by the Albert docks amongst the lines of rusty locks.

As the sun sets over the river Mersey.

Every lock has a story that’s worthy.
I still wonder who holds the keys.
But thats their story and it’s not meant for me.

By Stacie Leanne 16/07/2020

𝕃𝕒𝕔𝕦𝕣𝕒 ℚ𝟙𝟘 ℝ𝕖𝕟𝕖𝕨 𝔻𝕒𝕪 𝕒𝕟𝕕 ℕ𝕚𝕘𝕙𝕥 ℂ𝕣𝕖𝕒𝕞

Hello everyone.

Hope you are well.

Today I’ve decided to do a product review.

From Aldi’s beauty range…

I absolutely hate the thought of getting old I know it happens to us all but I really don’t want to.

I’m nearly 33 some may say that I’m too young for anti ageing but it’s up to each individual isn’t it.

There’s so many products on the market its very difficult to pick the right one.

I have to say this review is purely based on the more affordable end of the market.

Can be picked up in any of your local aldi supermarket or purchased online.

I purchased both day and night cream in this range purely because I wanted to use combined products that would work together throughout the day and evening.

The facts.

Made with the finest, results driven ingredients this Lacura Q10 Renew Anti-Wrinkle Day and Night Cream Set helps protect skin from premature ageing.

Features:
With a Peptide Complex, Hyaluronic Acid and Coenzyme Q10 (day cream)

With a Retinol Complex, Avocado Oil and Coenzyme Q10 (night cream)

UVA/UVB filter system with SPF20 (in the Day Cream)
Dermatologically tested
Ingredients chosen to rejuvenate with smooth and youthful-looking results.

Each product retails for £1.45 for 50ml pot it’s definitely vaule for money.

Here is my review I’ve been using both creams for 3 weeks now.

First of all I absolutely hate creams that make your face feel greasy but with this perticular product its very light on your skin perfect for the skin care morning routine even if your in a rush it makes a fabulous base for your foundation.

It’s perfect for all skin types and great for anyone who is always on the go and needs a quick skin care routine.
That will do the job.

You don’t need a lot or product each time you use either.

It smells nice too.

My skin has improved over the last three weeks it’s become more firmer and my completion has become more even and clearer.

Overall I’m impressed with my purchase from Aldi’s lacura range.

You can purchase from your local store or on the link below 👇👇🔗🔗

https://www.aldi.co.uk/lacura-q10-renew-day-and-night-cream/p/000000216986900

Love to you all.

Stacie x

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Good afternoon 😊

I’m blogging from my little piece of heaven in Merseyside.

I’ve been wanting to blog about a topic for sometime now.

It’s also a question I’ve been asked a few times and again I’ve always thrown a curve ball and avoided answering it.

I think I owe it to myself and others to give a rational answer.

It’s all about communication or lack of it.

So girls and guys I’m going to answer in the best way I possibly can and share the experience I’ve had surrounding this subject.

The question was firstly asked around February 2020 a few of my earlier readers had the pleasure to read my pain and frustration from previous blog posts.

And I do get asked a lot of questions that I can give a honest answer to but this one I didn’t know the answer because at the time I really didn’t have the advice to share.

But the question was..

When do you give up on communication with someone who just simply isn’t responding to you.

First of all I’m not going to lie it hurts like hell when you put your heart and soul into a connection and its not reciprocated.

And sometimes it’s actually nothing to do with you or anything you have done.

Sometimes it’s a situation that’s out of our control or just how the other person see’s the connection.

I’m not saying it’s fine to ignore people because that’s a pretty shitty thing to do.

But unfortunately the world’s full of shitty selfish people.

It’s all about rebuilding yourself and taking each day at a time.

It doesn’t matter how much you try and communicate with them if they don’t want to communicate back nothing you do will make them want to.

I’m sorry but that’s the truth.

I’ve done it for months waited for a message, email or a call or a follow on social media it’s never came and now I’ve learnt that a dead flower won’t grow if you just keep watering in fact you just drown it, you just need let it be and leave it alone..

Let it do its thing if it regrows amazing if it doesn’t then fine.

Crazy metaphor I know but that’s how I see it.

Whilst you’re waiting life’s passing you by and your missing out on your own growth.

So stop looking at your emails or you phone waiting for a txted, email or call to come your way….

Go your own way and if your ships finally come in great just don’t wait around for communication because time waits for no one.

So go out there live your life be amazing and if that person never calls or emails then they have missed out on an awesome connection.

Not you…

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Love to you all

Stacie xxx

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