Good afternoon 😊
I’m blogging from my little piece of heaven in Merseyside.
I’ve been wanting to blog about a topic for sometime now.
It’s also a question I’ve been asked a few times and again I’ve always thrown a curve ball and avoided answering it.
I think I owe it to myself and others to give a rational answer.
It’s all about communication or lack of it.
So girls and guys I’m going to answer in the best way I possibly can and share the experience I’ve had surrounding this subject.
The question was firstly asked around February 2020 a few of my earlier readers had the pleasure to read my pain and frustration from previous blog posts.
And I do get asked a lot of questions that I can give a honest answer to but this one I didn’t know the answer because at the time I really didn’t have the advice to share.
But the question was..
When do you give up on communication with someone who just simply isn’t responding to you.
First of all I’m not going to lie it hurts like hell when you put your heart and soul into a connection and its not reciprocated.
And sometimes it’s actually nothing to do with you or anything you have done.
Sometimes it’s a situation that’s out of our control or just how the other person see’s the connection.
I’m not saying it’s fine to ignore people because that’s a pretty shitty thing to do.
But unfortunately the world’s full of shitty selfish people.
It’s all about rebuilding yourself and taking each day at a time.
It doesn’t matter how much you try and communicate with them if they don’t want to communicate back nothing you do will make them want to.
I’m sorry but that’s the truth.
I’ve done it for months waited for a message, email or a call or a follow on social media it’s never came and now I’ve learnt that a dead flower won’t grow if you just keep watering in fact you just drown it, you just need let it be and leave it alone..
Let it do its thing if it regrows amazing if it doesn’t then fine.
Crazy metaphor I know but that’s how I see it.
Whilst you’re waiting life’s passing you by and your missing out on your own growth.
So stop looking at your emails or you phone waiting for a txted, email or call to come your way….
Go your own way and if your ships finally come in great just don’t wait around for communication because time waits for no one.
So go out there live your life be amazing and if that person never calls or emails then they have missed out on an awesome connection.
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