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𝕃𝕚𝕥𝕥𝕝𝕖 𝕓𝕪 𝕃𝕚𝕥𝕥𝕝𝕖

It’s been a minute since I’ve properly blogged.

It’s been one of those weeks well months if I’m honest but it’s all been hush hush.

I’ve really wanted to blog about situations but I know I can’t at the moment i haven’t got the heart to.

Or the words to discribe how it’s made me feel.

You wake up everyday with this ambition of wanting to make a change an difference to yourself and the world around you.

You build yourself up then for others to try and knock you down and to me that’s not fair.

It’s not all bad news and depressing states though I’ve learnt alot about myself during this process.

I’ve removed a lot of toxic energy but some is still remaining its been quite tough trying to find a solution to situation where you don’t even know where to start.

Anyone who understands what I’m going on about knows how hard it is to try and it still not be good enough.

I talk alot about myself in my blogs because this is the whole reason why I decided to share parts of myself with you all.

So that people could relate and not feel alone.

Because feeling alone is worst feeling in the world.

One thing I’ve realised is I’m not normal and neither do I want to be.

But then what is classed as not normal these days we all have faults somewhere down the line.

Can we actually define the social expectations of being normal?

Someone who shows traits of an eccentric character in society isn’t deemed to be normal.

Why because they don’t allow themselves to fall into the trap of normal social existence.

Go to school, get a job, fall in love, get married, have babies.

That’s great in all if that’s what you want but to just simply be you and make yourself happy sometimes doesn’t sit well with others.

Not everyone will understand you or know why you do the things you do.

And that’s OK it’s not right to judge somebody else’s path.

Some times you just need to take a second to refocus.

Progress is progress however big or small it is, it’s still progress..

So little by little than none at all.

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Weekly Guidance 14/08/2020 to 21/08/2020

Hello Everyone..

Its time for weekly guidance from your one and only seashells and lipgloss aka Stacie.

This week i will be using my saints and angels oracle deck because i love to switch the energy up a bit to keep you all coming back for more.

First of all i must state that all my weekly guidance posts are for entertainment purpose only and are for all signs and all element’s.

Take what resonates and leave the rest.

Here it goes..

1st Card

Confidence

With this card you are being protected from negative influence’s , helping you to remain optimistic and filled with faith surrounding a current situation you are being shown to keep faith and stand firm with your choices.

As you enter a new stage in your life path you will be ready to let go of the past and move forwards with lessons learnt and knowledge gained from past experience’s your not going to make the same mistake twice but you need to also let go of fear regarding a new connection the past only repeats itself if you allow it to.

Have Confidence and know that you hold your own power.

2nd Card

Reward

You are being rewarded for all your efforts , hard work and dedication from helping others.

Its time to now take a step back and reap your reward and focus on your own needs and desires.

Your reward will come to you unexpectedly and in a happy and fore filling way , know you are being protected and loved from your loved ones in spirit.

I am being told that a lot of you have been giving your energy out and not gaining much in return this is why spirit is now saying to retreat and rejuvenate yourself .

Your good karma is on its way back to you.

3rd Card

Steady Progress

This card is all about yes you guessed it progress …

I feel that some of you are feeling very frustrated surrounding current and past situations.

spirit world wants you to know that you cant change the past but you can make progress in the present and the future.

And that’s where the progress is needed, don’t dwell on the past let go of the guilt and regrets and heart ache make way few new and exciting opportunities.

You are making progress even if you don’t feel like you are..

Small steps .

4th Card

Healing

With this card i feel that a lot of you have been feeling emotionally unattached over the past few months , im being shown low moods and lost of interest .

You are now going through a period of healing so allow yourself to accept the healing and start thinking about your own need and getting back on track.

Be especially aware of messages, signs and synchronicities at this time; they are a direct communication from the Universe guiding you in the right direction.

Look for Earth Angels at this time too.

People who are specially placed in your life to help you.

5th Card

Sleep

With this card i feel a lot of you have been getting messages and signs in your dream state i feel that for some of you also sleep issues have been having a massive impact on your day to day life.

Sleep and rest is needed to be able to function right in life not only for our physical state but also mental state ,some of you have been not able to switch off at night and overthinking causing you to feel fear and allowing it to distract your mind from getting clear messages and guidance coming through for you during your dream state.

Spirit are making me aware that you need to change your bedtime routine i feel a lot of you have been wrapped up in current situations that are out of your control , wrapped up in the media and what other people are doing.

When it comes to night time allow yourselves to rest and quieten your mind to allow guidance to come to you.

6th Card

Speak Your Truth

When you speak your truth with courage and conviction, people take notice.

You can release any fears and doubts that your words will be met with disbelief if you first ask assistance from your angels and guides.

Ask them to send like minded people to you, who will aid you in your journey.

Often we know what is right, but we are held back by fear of judgement from others around us.

It may be that they really need to hear what we have to say, and their fear and judgement comes from the simple fact that they just don’t understand us, yet, and that is what causes them to fear what we have to say.

Thank you for reading i hope you gained comfort and guidance from this weeks post.

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𝕋𝕒𝕝𝕜 𝕀’𝕝𝕝 𝕃𝕚𝕤𝕥𝕖𝕟

Afternoon all..

I hope you are all well and have had a great weekend.

Whist I’ve had a bit of time to myself the past few days I’ve looked back over the last few months and how slowly started to bring myself back to life.

Mental health is so important to me because I understand how other people feel when their at a low point in life and how our minds affects our progression, relationships and the way we see ourselves.

One of the main issues I had was trying to hold everything inside keeping feelings and emotions inside.

It really didn’t work it was like putting a packet of mentos in a bottle of coke and expecting it not to erupt..

It happens there’s no holding it in..

This is know as fight and flight mode..

When your in flight of fight mode which does happen a lot with people who have anxiety and other conditions that are linked to mental distress. All you want to do is run and hide away push everyone away and bottle everything up so you try to surpress your emotions and pretend your fine.

There are three stages of flight or flight alarm, resistance, and exhaustion.

Alarm – This occurs when we first perceive something as stressful, and then the body initiates the fight-or-flight response.

Resistance – If the perceived stress continues, the body stays activated at a higher metabolic level in an effort to offset the persistent stress. The body cannot maintain this level indefinitely, and its resources will eventually deplete.

Exhaustion – Prolonged exposure to the stressor will result in the depletion of the body’s resources, and the resulting wear and tear will suppress the immune system and cause bodily functions to deteriorate.

This can lead to a variety of health issues and illnesses, including heart disease, digestive problems, depression, and diabetes.

It’s important we try and figure out what triggers us in order to help us not only move on but to help stop fight or flight reactions reaccurring.

It’s all about personal boundaries and allowing yourself to actually put you’re own needs first.

I’m always told by people I don’t know how you always manage to cope with certain situations and people.
I was always told you’re extremely strong willed the answer to them would be yes I suppose so but all I wanted to scream is I’m not I just wear a mask like most people I’m good at suppressing my emotions which can then come across like I’m not affected by situations or people’s actions.

But actually I really am affected by it just good at hiding my feelings.

One of my biggest issues is trying to understand why people don’t like me i know in past situations I’ve not been the best possible person I could be.
But I’ve learnt from my mistakes.

I have issues with rejection I find it extremely hard to understand why people wouldn’t like me…

But the people who are close to me always tell me is because I actually try and achieve something in life and that I aways wear my heart on my sleeve.

I’ve come to realise that not everyone likes everyone and that’s OK sometimes there isn’t a reason and there isn’t an answer to your question you just have to accept it for what it is and move on.

It’s impossible to be liked by everyone and never try understand why people do things the way they do or say the things they say.

Your only in control of yourself.

It’s all about quality of friendship and family connections not quantity the people who love your will always listen to you however many times your need to scream or moan but never be scared to express how you really feel.

Your causing more damage to yourself than good by pretending you’re OK don’t be scared to ask for help or put yourself first.

Sending hugs to you all

Lots of love
Stacie xx

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𝕎𝕖𝕖𝕜𝕝𝕪 𝕊𝕡𝕚𝕣𝕚𝕥𝕦𝕒𝕝 𝔾𝕦𝕚𝕕𝕒𝕟𝕔𝕖 𝟘𝟟/𝟘𝟠/𝟚𝟘𝟚𝟘 𝕥𝕠 𝟙𝟜/𝟘𝟠/𝟚𝟘𝟚𝟘

Good Afternoon all.

I hope you are all well I’ve been so busy the last few days with work and home life I’ve also been feeling a bit drained by certain energies but its now the weekend so its time to let that go and focus on myself.

I really enjoy doing these weekly guidance blogs because i love giving something back to you all i love sharing my spiritual energy with you all.

Lets get the formal bit out the way and i can start processing the messages and guidance for you all.

Disclaimer please note that weekly guidance blog post are for entertainment purpose only please take what resonates with you and leave the rest please note that its for all signs also.

The next few weeks there will be a lot of you who will be letting a lot go and choosing to move forwards there has been a period of stagnate energy nothings been moving on in fact i feel a lot has changed for a lot of you.

Trying times i feel are now passing but i feel most of you need to really sit and think about future plans only movement forward is needed not revisiting the past what’s left in the past should stay in the past.

I have been drawn to six tarot cards today im now going to share with you each interpretation.

First Card

Six Of Pentacle’s

The main meaning of the Six of Pentacles is that it is a card of sharing. Often, this card represents giving or receiving financial assistance, but in some cases, it can symbolize generosity with love, feelings, support, etc.

Typically, the Six of Pentacles predicts that charity being given and received.

If you are in financial hardship and have received the Six of Pentacles, you will be given a chance to recover.

Help is coming you need to trust that better times are coming and don’t be worried to ask others for help and support you must not allow your pride to get in the way.

Second Card

The Chariot

As you trudge along the pilgrimage of life, it is inevitable to experience rough and bumpy roads. But bear in mind that this too shall pass.

The upright position of the chariot card denotes the will to surpass difficult problems and the drive to break insurmountable boundaries. It gives a message that when you persist in winning challenges and obstacles, victory is surely within reach.

When you are in proper and full control of your affairs, you can easily achieve your goals and desires in life.

Again spirit has spoken and its all about moving forward taking charge and understanding that progress is needed in order to move forward but this card also indicated that you need to have a clear vision of where your going in order to guide yourself on to the correct path and go ahead without fear.

Third Card

The Star

The Star’s presence signifies a period of respite and renewal for you. This renewal may be spiritual, physical, or both. It is a particularly positive sign if you or someone close is recovering from illness or injury. It is a light in the darkness, illuminating your future and your past.

The light at the end of the tunnel card with the star its showing you that with a little bit of faith and trust in your own abilities you will be overcoming your current situation i also feel you have become stronger within yourselves in order to make changes in your mindset for future goals.

Fourth Card

Page of Wands

The Page of Wands in Tarot stands for being creative, enthusiastic, confident, and courageous. This card also considers spiritual concepts. Depending on the accompanying cards, at times the Page of Wands may further imply that the entire situation is immersed in the spirit of excitement and adventure. Again, depending on the circumstances, the Page of Wands can also suggest a presence of a young-at-heart adult or a child with whom you would interact. Such interactions may involve independence, high energy, risky behaviour, or shared enthusiasm.

The Page of wands card indicates a risk taker a dreamer someone who is living life and full of energy highly addictive trait to fall inline with.

I don’t believe this card is fearful its here to show us all that we all need excitement in our lives and to truly treasure the memories that we have the ones that are yet to come.

Let out your wild side and be free without fear.

Fifth Card

Knight of Pentacles

The Knight of Pentacles rushes to your side, bringing forth gifts of financial blessings, professional movement, stability and nobility.

He is a man of positive nature who takes responsibilities for his actions and is telling you that you should be responsible for yours as well. You are a dependable person, with good instincts who is watchful as well as a good physical leader.

The Knight of Pentacles offers protective assistance, a sense of duty as well as loyalty. He is practical and athletic. If this Knight represents you as the querent, then you are a super protective kind of person whose sense of duty and loyalty really motivates your life experience.

You are able to see the expansive side of things in life, the potential that all of the world possesses should we only take a hold and allow it to move us. You are going through a happy transit of the pursuit of success and abundance.

For all of you that are experiencing hardship at the moment this is your card and message from spirit saying hold fire this hardship is coming to an end the cogs in the wheel are starting to turn again don’t give up hope.

Good news is coming soon…

Sixth Card

Three of Cups.

Three of Cups, you will see three women lifting their cups up in the air in a celebration of some sort. Good times are in the air, for the three ladies have wreaths made of flowers in their hair.

Wreaths are often associated with success and victory, so their happiness is well deserved. The ladies are also seen standing on top of a field of flowers and fruit, further adding to the joyful feelings in this card.

There are feelings of beauty, growth, compassion and happiness that the women share between each other.

The meaning behind the Three of Cups represents a period of happiness. You will be able to forget the worries of your daily life and spend quality time with family and friends.

To see the Three of Cups can indicate a happy reunion with a long lost friend, relative, or loved one. It can also mean a celebration, whether it is your own or for someone who you love. The event can be a birthday, wedding, or any other happy occasion. In general, it is about spending quality time with people you cherish in your life.

I hope you have enjoyed your weekly guidance post please share like and comment below.

With love

Stacie xx

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𝕐𝕠𝕦’𝕣𝕖 𝕟𝕖𝕨 𝕝𝕚𝕗𝕖 𝕚𝕤 𝕘𝕠𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕥𝕠 𝕔𝕠𝕤𝕥 𝕪𝕠𝕦𝕣 𝕠𝕝𝕕 𝕠𝕟𝕖

Good evening..

Late night blogging for me its Monday and it’s a start of a brand new week.I wanted to share this blog with you all because at the moment I know people are struggling with their mental health and dealing with fear and anxiety.

When your forced to make changes or if a change is forced upon you it can be a very frustrating and confusing time let alone scary.

Some people deal with change well others don’t it’s just human nature.

Some have better coping mechanisms than others.I’m going to share some knowledge I’ve learnt over the past six months and how I’ve used it to help me progress..

1. Never change who you are to fit in with other’s…

I’ve been in this situation so many times.

Instead of being the person you are you end up being so far away from who you actually are and perceiving you’re self to be someone you’re not.

This is a massive lesson to learn because to all the people who just want to be liked by everyone it’s not going to happen…Sometimes in life people dislike you for no reason it happens.

Never ever under any circumstances try and fit in with others.You loose yourself in the process and whilst others around you are happy you will not be happy because you aren’t being your true self.

2. You will never understand another person’s actions towards you.

Dont try and debunk why someone treats you the way they do you will go round in circles in your own brain trying to figure it all out honestly it’s not worth it.

Life goes on always remember that and everyone has their own burdens to carry if you find a kind person around you be one.

3. Toughen up

I know it’s easy for me to say yes I said the exact same thing when I was told I’m too kind to people who don’t deserve it.It takes courage to stand up for yourself and say enough is enough.

I’m not dealing with this situation any more.

You either move past it or make life harder than it needs to be.

You don’t need to participate in every situation that gets thrown your way

People are going to think what they think and nothing you do or say will make them believe otherwise.

4. Don’t justify any decisions you make.

This one is simple it’s your life its your choice every decision you make is either for you to evolve and grow or to move on to something better.

If you feel it’s right go with your own gut instinct at the end of the day people talk it’s what humans do but you might as well just do it anyway regardless you can accept advice but never let someone criticise you for simply trying to better yourself.

5. Let them believe what they want to.

Best thing to do here don’t react when you enter transformation you care less about how others see you and more about how you see yourself.

What’s your self worth and why sometimes it doesn’t always pay you to be completely honest sometimes we just don’t need to say nothing at all…

People won’t understand how they treated you until you treat them in exactly the same way its just the way it is.

But don’t try and justify anything to anyone who’s already made up their mind about who you are.

Even if their perception is false.

6. The Chinese Whisperers

Massive lessons I’ve learnt this year is don’t believe everything someone says about someone.

We as humans are very quick to judge and get tangled up in all sort of drama that doesn’t really concern us.

This is my massive learning curve for 2020.

Leave people to fight their own battles.

We have all done it said something and thought why the hell have I just said that we are all human and make mistakes we live with alot of regret throughout life but its when you don’t learn from it that makes it dangerous for us.

I’m literally no longer getting involved with anything that doesn’t concern me you can’t keep making the same mistake.

You can’t bulid a new life by keep talking parts of the old one and trying to make the pieces fit it simply doesn’t work that way.

You will loose parts of yourself and people who you always thought would be around you forever but that’s part of the process where you are ready to move on.

You have your memories and sometimes that’s more than enough.

Stay strong

Love to you all

Stacie x

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It’s all so quiet …

Shh shh
It’s oh so still
Shh shh
You’re all alone
Shh shh
And so peaceful until…

Good evening all.

I hope your well, so who’s ready for normal life to resume again I know I definitely want normality back.

Like billions of others I haven’t been blogging a lot because I’ve been busy working on a few things behind the scene and tbh I’ve had a few bad days I didn’t want to document them because for me it’s now about progression and moving forward.

I’m only human and I know i will still have bad days besides good ones.

My motto for August is be true to who you are and focus on yourselves. Everyone around you is on their own personal journey leave them to it and focus on you.

Apart from working on myself and my own future I would like to think I’ve made some sort of a difference to other people’s lives over the past 18 months I’ve had plenty of ups and downs but it’s honestly made me a stronger person…

My blog is going from strength to strength the amount support I receive is amazing thank you all.

I would like to say the scars are finally healing from the past and I’m actually remembering what happiness is again.

A week ago I sat down and thought about what I want from life I’ve not put a lifetime plan in place as things can change unexpectedly but I’ve made at least a twelve month plan for myself and where I would like to be a year from now…

Whilst I was going through a bad time in my life I forgot whats mostly important to me and what makes me happy just because I was always worrying about what other people thought of me and how my personal growth would affect there’s.

Now I’m just focusing on me as selfish as that sounds.

I am still a good mum and every other title I fall under of but I’m not taking to lightly on others I have to do what makes me happier.

Today I relaunched one of my passions making custom clothing it’s another bow added to my very long string.

I’m just doing what makes me happy and that’s what life’s about after all being happy, falling in love and feeling like you belong in your own skin.

What other people are doing around you isn’t your mess to clean up its there’s so your best off leaving them to it and focusing on yourself and your future.

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10 Ways To Get Back Your Happiness

Good Afternoon All

I wanted to do a little blog this afternoon about getting your happiness back!!!

Everyone deserves happiness in life but its all about if you wait for it to fall in your lap or go out and create your own little bit of sunshine.

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So here we go have you ever felt so far of the beaten track that you see no way back to happiness.

I have and its very difficult to see the light at the end of the tunnel.

The frustration and the hopelessness of keep continually going round and round in that hamster wheel with no way off.

I’m going to highlight 10 ways to help get your happy on these are tried and tested theories by yours truly ..

Number one

Listen to music…

Music is the key to your soul i find listening to music helps identify all the emotions you cant find the words to say out loud.

I love the fact that you can just put on that one song that can either transform you mood or bring back happy memories.

I create my own playlists depending on my mood i find it really does help.

Number 2

Get Active

Keeping active plays a very important role not only for the body but also for the mind.

Go out and explore take a walk in nature allow yourself to be taken away from everyday life.

Take yourself out of the four walls even the moderate exercise can make a whole lot do difference.

Number 3

Read a book

Getting lost in a good book creates happiness because for a short while you forget about everything your whole life transforms into one moment that’s right in front of you.

Being still in peace and quiet give you time to rest and allow yourself to be still it’s a fabulous place to be when it’s

Number 4

Be greatful for what and who you have in your life.

Sometimes we get so caught up in the bad we loose sight of what’s good and important for us.

Having the right love and support around us can make us richer than any money could ever make us.

Creating your own happiness and sharing with the people closest too you is one of the most wonderful experiences anyone can have.

Number 5

Hobbies

To find something you are passionate about and just to keep going with it if it’s creative, sports or something you simply just enjoy doing if you find happiness then that itself is worth more than gold its great to have something you can find peace within.

And also feel passionate about.

Number 6

Keep a journal

This one I can 100% relate too I’ve said in previous article’s that blogging has been my life saver.

If your like me and can’t find the words to say face to face putting pen to paper is the way forward.

Write about what makes you happy and what makes you greatful in life send your postive thoughts to the universe and watch your abundance return.

Number 7

Always trust your own intuition.

When it comes to your happiness make sure your are the one who pulls all the strings don’t do something to make someone else happy and leave yourself feeling deflated and defeated.

It’s right to be mindful of others but don’t forget to put your own needs first.

If something feels odd it will more than likely to have negative outcome.

Number 8

Be the change you want to see in the world.

The world may be a depressing state of affairs, especially when you listen to negative people and the media. If you want to see a change in the world and have happiness back in your life, then start changing your own beliefs and attitude. It’s when you change that you can become what you want to see in the world. If you are more loving, then you will experience that more within your daily life. If you want more happiness then be happy, if you want more money then give money—the list is endless!

So, what ways can you have happiness back in your life when the outside world appears to be so depressing?

Number 9

Smile and Laugh Often

Try not to take life too seriously. I know that ‘seriousness’ is required in some circumstances, but if you continually treat life as a struggle or as something painful then it will continue to be that way. Let your true self come out by remembering what it was like as a child to be carefree, to laugh, to smile and to play regularly. If you can learn to bring more play into your life and the lives of those you love, you’ll see that life no longer has to be depressing or sad. Just because the rest of the world is like that doesn’t mean you have to follow suit!

Number 10

Do something for someone else.

A lot of what has happened in the world to make it depressing has happened because we have forgotten to love and forgotten to give. To get the happiness back in your life, it might be time to start looking at how much giving you actually do.

When someone asks you to do something for them, how do you react? Are you resentful, offhand or plain rude? If you have answered “yes” to any of those, then perhaps it’s time to re-think how you are to those you love.

Giving does not have to be about money, it can just be giving back time, or helping someone move, or lending a loved one a book. It can be anything. I’ve always felt that if you aren’t giving then you aren’t living because that’s what life is all about!

I hope you have enjoyed my article.

Love to you all..

Stacie xxxx

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Good Afternoon all .

I hope you are all well.

Todays post i have decided after much thought to add premium content to blog , ive been asked by a lot of my follows why my blog posts are free.

I simply didn’t think my blog was that popular to start asking for a subscription .

But after much thought and talking to a lot of people about my work I’ve decided its time to progress.

I will still be doing the normal articles but the more advanced subjects now will be subscription only.

Please understand That i put hours and hours into my work and it also uses up a lot of my free time but because i am so passionate about my work and sharing my thoughts i have given my time very freely to help others.

And now its time for me to gain a little back for the effort I’ve put in.

I hope you can all understand the choices I’ve made for my own progression.

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Good afternoon…

I hate to have to do blogs like this now because I’m so far away from the person who I was 18 months ago.
But as its my blog and I know people who truly care about me will understand every word that I wrote. Nothing else matters than how you see yourself.

So here it goes….

Hey I’m stacie I’m a 32 year old working mum of two.

I have two girls that I need to show strength and empowerment to.

Yes how ive evolved from who I once was and to the people who don’t understand why I’ve changed I’m going to explain a little.

If your affected by it then tough then maybe you know you have played a part in my story and maybe the truth hits home hard but that’s not my gulit it’s yours.

When all people say is oh well your strong you can deal with it but your actually screaming inside I can’t do this anymore, I’ve had enough yes this was me 18 months ago disappointed by ego, relationships,friendships and your own personal growth.

If I could go back now and slap myself 18 months previous I would.
How I’ve allowed others to use and walk over me.

To lie, abuse my friendship and my love then act like I was the one who put the knife in their back.

Well guess what I’ve just pulled the last knife out of my own back.

Whatever I’ve done in order to create my own innerpeace is my bussiness.

I’ve lost weight for me and I will continue to do what makes me happy…

And if I want to sit there in my bra and pants and post a selfie I will because this women is proud of who’s shes becoming.

After years of looking in the mirror and hating myself I finally have self love.

If you don’t like to see someone else progress then that’s your own issue.

I won’t settle for anything less than what I deserve.
So yes you can say who does she think she is.

But you don’t know the truth behind my change and why I needed to change myself.

I’m still here there’s still parts of stacie but I’ve upgraded and outgrown people who didn’t bring peace to my life my old ways of thinking have gone.

I’m still compassionate I still have a heart but the walls are a little higher..

No time for drama, fake friends or judgement.

I’m here to make something of myself.

So keep your judgement to yourself because it’s not welcome here.

We don’t cut people out for the fun of it we cut people out because we have finally opened our eyes.

I’m no angel I know that but one thing is I’ve learnt from my mistakes I don’t try and pass them off to someone else and hide.

But understand that sometimes people need to wipe slate clean and walk away from anything that damages the soul.

Sometimes that includes cutting ties and moving on.

Thanks for reading 💓💗

Stacie xx
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