To love and be loved is to feel the sun from both sides.

Evening all ❤️

Here is one of my favourite paintings of all Time…

The kiss

Here’s a little interpretation of the kiss….
The kiss symbolises in the present this painting indicate that the man and woman each have distinct characteristics that, though very different from one another, allow them to feel whole and complete as a couple. The balanced connection between the two in The Kiss by Gustav Klimt is the quintessential example of what love is. In a sense, the man and the woman depicted in The Kiss by Gustav Klimt can be interpreted to have a sort of yin and yang relationship that appears to contrast from a far, but upon closer examination actually fits together perfectly.

I can hear you thinking out loud and saying what’s this got to do with anything I have actually got a point..

I’ve been thinking about my love life recently.

I literally have no direction I don’t actually want one either like I’ve said in previous posts you can’t force anything.

If it’s forced I don’t want it you should never fight to get someone’s attention.

I’ve been having a lot of dreams lately and I honestly believe that I’m being shown snips of information from my future.

Again I have a belief in the spirit world im not ashamed to admit that and I believe I’m being shown to have hope to be patient that’s all I need to be everything comes at the right time in life.

I often get asked what do I look for in another person.

Well I have to be completey honest here I look for someone who’s got a uniqueness about them.

I’m not afraid of a challenge I don’t think there isn’t a person on this earth that isn’t broken in someway.

When you choose someone to share your quality time in life with it means you have chosen this person due to your connection sometimes we get it wrong but it’s a learning curve.

Life’s pretty much important and time never stops it’s always passing us by so if someone has picked you to spend time with or you can see a future investment with don’t let that opportunity slip away theres no compatability test on earth where two human beings are perfectly aligned that’s utter 💩.

We love who we love and we can’t help that never punish yourself for it either.

So how does the kiss come into this well it’s the Yin-yang theory that I’m going with here

. But what are the yin and yang meanings in love..

Attributes of Yin Energy (this represents me)

A person with prominent yin energy exhibits a passive attitude to life. This person is laid back and often fairly quiet in social situations. A yin person enjoys solitude and a quiet, peaceful environment. Yin people are very nurturing and enjoy creating a home (nest) for themselves and their family.

Attributes of Yang Energy (this represents my soul connection)

A yang person has high energy levels and is constantly on the go. There is a strong creative streak that demands expression. The yang energy can become overwhelming if not balanced with yin energy. Too much yang energy will make the person very aggressive and demanding. A yang person appreciates the talents and gifts in other people and a yin person can often stabilize a yang person by providing restive nurturing.
The exchange of energies in a love relationship is more powerful than you may realize. There are times when one person will have more yin energy and the other will have more yang energy. There are also times when those combined energies of the couple may have more yin energy than yang energy and vice versa. This is normal and should be expected, but eventually, you want those energies to recede and a more balanced chi to return.

It’s about balance and understanding.

Working on issues and communication is massive part of it all.

You can and will get your happy ever after but it doesn’t come easily.

Have faith.

Love to you all 😊

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️ ❤️

🌙 My mirror 🌙

People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that’s what everyone wants. But a true soulmate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.”

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️

Giving them space 🌌

“The famous saying goes that if you let something go and it’s meant to be then it will come back to you eventually”

Evening all ❤️

Late night blogging my last thoughts before I drift off to sleep.

Well what can I say… I’m holding my breath as I type this everything I wanted to say I know I can’t quite find the words.

I know isn’t that the whole point of a blog.

Everything is pretty much steady in my life at the moment.

I’m feeling more confident but still I find it hard to find the words to put my point across.

It’s almost like it’s stuck until the times right to process it.

I don’t actually know if I’m annoyed or upset infact I’m neither.

When you expect too much from someone then you don’t get back what you put in it makes you question everything.

Giving people space to grow and evolve is important i know it’s a must but I think there is a certain way of approaching this.

Feeling unwanted and sometimes you can be surrounded by a number of people but it’s only one person matters but that person isn’t there anymore and I get it completely people need space time away from each other.

I have spoke out about my past issues regarding connections with others and how it’s affected my life.

But don’t you think complete withdrawal from another human being is a little harsh.

See I’m very defensive it’s like I always have to fight my corner I have to answer for every single action I take.

And recently….

And what annoyes me that it’s so easy for people to say forget and move on.

Doesn’t always work out that way.

I’m not weak or desperate for seeking what my heart wants even if my head says stacie your bloody stupid it’s called having a soul.

Having a big heart isn’t a crime so don’t let anyone tell you it’s stupid don’t let them make you cold to the world.

I won’t beg nor will I keep dwelling on the situation but I’m the kind of women who will always try and be brave be a warrior show nothing but strength but deep down I’m waging my own war with myself.

I’ve got a lot of respect for people who can be honest even when it’s the hardest thing to do but you can be honest but never be cruel.

I’m here I’m raw I’m sometimes a little bit mad but all the best people are….

But always remember…

Love to you all 😊

Night night

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️

Smonday

Heya all its Sunday afternoon nearly evening here in Liverpool uk.

I hope you are all OK wherever you are in the world.

The impending doom of Monday is fast approaching another week another dollar…

It’s either going be a quick but amazing week or a slow and depressing week but my god am I ready for next weekend 🙏🏻

I absolutely love payday week all bills been paid so stacie gets to treat herself.

This is 2nd time I’ve ordered from boohoo within two weeks I have to say I love getting new clothes.

so what did I purchase this time well it’s a Co ordinates set I got 60% off it too so it’s a bonus I will be wearing it next weekend in the daytime.

Now the tan I’ve been asked to try the cb tanning mouse for a while now but I’ve only just got round to trying it as I have my other product to use up.

Coco brown retails from £6.99 to £7.99 depends on what retailers you purchase from.

I love a tan when I’m going out I also love my eyelashes done also by the lovely Sarah at glow.

But as I’ve previously blogged about I’m going through some self discovery and I’ve been so lucky to get my hair done today I absolutely love it.

I’ve always had dark black hair but I’ve gone for something less harsh really pushed the boat out and gone dark roots and lighter ends I know I know how adventurous am I just kidding.

I just fancied a change but i didn’t want to damage my own hair again as I’ve only just got it back in good condition.

By drinking beauty Locks hot chocolate.

My hair is my security blanket it gives me confidence however high maintenance that may seem but it makes me feel good and happy.

So in all today’s been a good day woke up no hangover from the gin happy times.

Hope you all have a great Monday.

Love to you all 😊

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️ ❤️ xx

The truth

Hey all

James blunt has released a brand new track the truth its from his 2019 album once upon a mind.

He’s been pretty quite past few years but he’s back and he’s back writing more songs from the heart

I absolutely love this track I feel its about someone who has not been completely honest to himself about his own feeling towards a women he once pushed away.

He’s tried to see if the grass is greener and its not and now he’s completely regretting letting her go and now he just wants her back.

But he knows it’s going to be a tough process.

I absolutely think it’s one of his best tracks.

Please follow the link and give it a listen ❤️

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click me for the truth by James blunt

Love to you all

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️ xxx

Doing it wrong 😀🤗

When a good thing goes bad it’s not the end of the world
It’s just the end of a world, that you had with one boy
And he’s the reason it happened, but he’s overreacting
And it’s all because he don’t want things to change..

(Doing it wrong) drake

Morning all my gorgeous bloggers and readers..

It’s Saturday and it raining in Merseyside but I’m not letting that kill my vibe.

I woke up happy and refreshed so I’m blogging live from my bath tub.

This morning I’m feeling vibes from drake he has to be one of my top ten favourite artists.

He talks alot of sense I personally don’t think it’s elevator music his vibe is right on point.

I’m super excited it’s payday and it’s the month inbetween run up to Christmas and New year so I get some me time I’m that focused on me at the moment and my kids of course its all about what works for me and my kids.

So I’ve decided to undergo a little makeover physically and mentally.

They do say a women who’s making changes is the most dangerous women out there she’s not scared to cut away peices of her life that no longer serves her or her wellbeing.

People say a women who’s got her shit together is a. Women going places and that’s me.

To me it’s not about who’s the skinnest the prettiest it’s about someone who’s got something unquie someone who’s got vibes that no one else has got.

I have no desire for validation from anyone or anything I don’t have no desire to show off I’m just living life.

Which I haven’t been doing for a long time.

So I’m spending a little time on me and making myself happy.

Some of it is cosmetic but that’s up to me.

I do what makes me happy and that’s that.

Never let anyone tell you…

You can’t do something or go somewhere in life its your life not theirs .

NEGTIVTY breeds NEGTIVTY.

Positivty brings good karma and new beginnings.

You attract what you give out to the universe.

So to everyone who’s feeling like they can’t see the light at the end of the tunnel.

Keep going even if your tired as you get closer to the end of that tunnel the light gets brighter and brighter and you will come out the other side a better stronger person.

Love 😍

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️ ❤️

Be true to who you are ❤️

So I’m. Just an average looking woman who just want to be heard in society..

I’m happy in my lounge wear I’m happy when Im dressed up.

I’m just a women who wants to be understood.

I’m the women who doesn’t need anyones approval.
I’m quite happy within myself & if I choose to share my precious time with you it’s beacuse I want too not beacuse I need too.

Attention isn’t my thing I don’t need to be told I’m beautiful because I’m stong enough to know my own worth.

But there’s one thing I know about myself I know I’m truly my most happiest when I can share my love and wisdom with someone who wants to listen. And accept change beacuse that’s when things happen that’s when you really do see a change,,,

Love to you all 😊

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️ ❤️ xxx

We are half way there 👍

Evening all

It’s wendsday already and this week I have to say has been a blast so far it’s so nice to have my sense of humour back in fact it’s pretty much amazing to have it back.

It’s been to long I’ve been such a miserable 🐮 to serious and not fun to be around.

It’s so nice to here people say I’m glad the old stacie is back.

The brutally honest but not giving a crap about what others think stacie is what I’m best at being beacuse life’s to short to hide and wait around.

Here comes from a women who thought backstock was some sort of street dance not linked to brexit.

To have people look at me sidey eyes 👀 because I don’t really follow politics 🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️.

Infact it absolutely bores me and bores them discusting it beacuse half of them keep. Falling asleep..

I don’t think half of them have an idea 🤔🤔 because I’ve not got a clue… Anyway

So someone special once told me to go be amazing so that’s what I’m doing to actually find out I’ve been pretty amazing all this time but I’ve not been seeing my full potential.

I live to make other people laugh I’m 💯 living for each day not for the future because that can change so quickly.

I don’t get upset about the past anymore and I’m no longer sad I lm just happy and even now I still smile every time I think about the past and it’s the valuable lessons I’ve learnt that have made me the person I am today.

When I first started this blog I was heartbroken i had also been on a really traumatic path and I was very lost.

I’m sure I’m not the only one out there that has felt like i did infact I’m pretty sure I’m not the only one.

The fact we are human and we all make mistakes and wish we would of done things differently but that’s life we fuck up its unavoidable.

We are a nation of assumptions and accusations before knowing the facts but again its part of being human its our survival instinct.

Fight or flight!!!

But infact we need to listen trust and have faith in the people we connect to our own gut instinct will always guide us along the way.

If your like me and want answers to situations that will never be answered it’s frustrating because when your gut instinct is telling you your right and the situation and the person is telling you it’s all in your head it’s very difficult to just move on but sometimes we don’t get answers or closure we just need to move on.

Sometimes it’s easier for people to hide block and avoid and if that’s how people deal with it fine but I couldn’t never leave someone in that constant purgatory mode it’s not fair.

This is where Im at now I’m focusing on me and my girls I can’t be doing with playing games my life’s to busy for that.

Focus is the key don’t loose focus and if your gut instinct proves you wrong then brilliant if it doesn’t it doesn’t life’s to short 👏

So after a first Couple of days being good I’m hoping it continues see putting crystals in your bra works ladies just watch your toes at end of the day when you whip it off.

Wherever you are in the world I wish you love and I hope your week is going well.

Love to you all 😊

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️ ❤️ xx

What’s next 🤔

Evening all ❤️

I trust you are all well.

I’m feeling a little under the weather due to seasonal change but apart from that I’m doing quite well.

I’ve been super busy starting to prep for 2020 this year hasn’t been the best for me if I’m honest but I have to say I’m so grateful to my blog and what it’s helped me achieve.

I run my blog alongside my daytime job it all fits perfectly if I’m honest it’s the best choice I’ve made for myself in 2019.

So onwards and upwards…

So what have I been planning well I’ve actually been planning lots of mini travelling trips that I’ve been putting off due to personal reasons.

I also want to take my girls on their first holiday in sun i did promise them this year but its not gone quite to plan.

I’ve been asked to attend a few music festivals and events mainly over spring and summer which is on my bucket list believe it or not.

And I’ve also had progress within my singing which I’m super excited about.

I now actually have a diary for personal and blogging reasons sometimes it just doesn’t seem real at times how far my life’s advance over a few months and how I’ve evolved.

I’ve been trying to make a mense with people I’ve lost touch with over the past few years but not everyone I’ve had dealings with do I want to reconnect with i just want to let go and move on but on the other hand some I’m finding it hard to let go of.

I actually know I’m on the right path and I actually now know who I am and I fully respect myself.

What I just can’t understand is why people are scared of rejection…

I’ve learnt nothing can be forced between people that must be my biggest learning curve in 2019.

Someone either wants you or they don’t it’s simple?

Life’s meant to be complicated otherwise how would we grow and progress.

I don’t regret anything I just need to make that clear I often get asked if I’ve been dealing with heartache but what I always say is no I’ve been dealing with rejection.

That’s something I’m not used to that’s not my ego typing but it’s the truth.

I’m not really sure why people reject others sometimes I think it maybe fear or the feeling that they maybe not good enough for the person in question.

To me that’s utter crap sorry but it is if the other party shows interest and chooses you over any other human on the planet then that’s a massive sign in itself.

I just don’t know why people are so scared about rejection it’s about being OK if they like you and being OK if they don’t it’s not end of the world.

But honstly if you like or love someone or they show. Courage and tell you they like or love you don’t run for the hills because of fear.

Take a step back and think about it before you reject it. Someone out there thinks your amazing so just take that on board.

For me what’s next I’m just riding this roller-coaster 🎢 called life and seeing where it takes me and I enjoy being alive and experiencing life.

Love to you all 😊

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ xxx

Last thought of the day ❤️

And all the love she gave away so freely she gave back to herself.

That’s when she realised nothing can be forced.

It has to flow naturally.

In order to break free at first you need to breathe let out all that negativity.

Only then will the healing process begin.

That’s when you know you will overcome this.

And with every bit of strength within

You will fight to become the person you once was.

Love

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 xxx