𝕋𝕒𝕜𝕖 𝕨𝕙𝕒𝕥 𝕪𝕠𝕦 𝕟𝕖𝕖𝕕 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕓𝕖 𝕠𝕟 𝕪𝕠𝕦𝕣 𝕨𝕒𝕪.

Evening all.

I hope you’re all well ❤️

My working week has now finished and I’m looking forward to just doing nothing.

Ive been working all through this world crisis at times it’s been tough but in true stacie style I’ve just got on with it.

We are nearly 6 months into 2020 and may I say this but what a mess it’s been.

More heartbreak, scary situations and crippling anxiety issues.

But on a positive note ive now nearly lost three stone in weight and my confidence is coming back.

Tonight it’s all about self love.

Self love is the key to opening the door to happiness.

You can achieve anything by adding a bit of sass and positive vibes into the mix.

I know that the last two years was all about growth for me lessons needed to be learnt.

Funny thing about humans is that they will take what they need from a connection and then cut the soul ties when they feel necessary.

Now im not saying everyone is like this because people do make deep soul connections with others.

Connections like this sometimes don’t make much sense but again lessons need to be learnt in order to successfully move on or move forwards together.

Negative thinking patterns can stop you from experiencing the most important and emotional experiences in your life.

The famous….

People live to much inside their own head to see the truth for what it is.

But i do not want to be inside my head its dark in there.

Sometimes you just have to admit defeat and close the chapter however painful it can be.

Self love is more important than trying to make someone feel something that’s not there.

Having the strength to over come issues of the heart makes you a true warrior.

To pick yourself up after you have shattered into a million pieces takes time, effort to preserve and self love.

Sometimes you just have to take what you need and be on your way and stop crying your heart out….

Love to you all 😊 😊

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️

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𝕆𝕟𝕖 𝕙𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕠𝕟 𝕥𝕙𝕖 𝕕𝕠𝕠𝕣

Here i stand one hand on the door.
You seemed to have gone now.
But then im not too sure.

There is no clue of what’s on your mind.
Of the secrets you hold on the inside.

You just seem to vanish and hide from your heart.
Im not even sure if there was love at the start.

With pure thoughts and a heart filled of love.
Now im so cold I’ve just given up.

You will never know how our story would unfold.

Page by page it just got too old.

You had chosen yourself.

And that was that… Always going forward and never going back.

Here i stand one hand on the door.
Tears in my eyes and my heart on the floor.

I looked for you and you wasnt there.
Now i know that you just don’t care.

One last time i called your name.
Hoping that you could see this isn’t a game.

You never replied with my one hand on the door.. As i slowly Whispered i just can’t do this anymore.

Stacie Leanne 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️
19/05/2020

#𝕊𝕡𝕖𝕒𝕜𝕐𝕠𝕦𝕣𝕄𝕚𝕟𝕕

Hey everyone ❤️

I hope you’re all ok.

This week it’s minds mental health awareness week and i wanted to do a little blog post this evening.

So here i go…

Living with a mental illness isn’t an easy task.

There isn’t no cure for what goes on inside an individuals mind.

There’s solutions but no definite cure.

Everyone has high and low points in life and even the nicest of people have limits.

Finding the time to bulid up the courage to openly speak the truth on how you’re feeling and what’s going on inside your head has to be thee most courageous thing anyone can ever do.

These last few day’s I’ve been watching harry’s heroes and ive seen two well known men find the inner strength to talk about past experiences around their mental health.

It was utterly heartbreaking hearing their issues about fighting their own demons.

In this day and age people feel more alone than ever.

Being isolated from the world not because we want to but we have to can be pretty dangerous.

It’s hard enough trying to decode in our own heads than try and explain to other people what we are feeling and thinking.

Human nature is to pretend everything is fine put on a smile and hide the truth the show must go on untill we end up trying to cover everything up to suit everyone else until the mask falls off beacuse you just can’t find the inner strength to hide anymore.

Admitting you need help isn’t weak its the first step towards a stronger you.

During times when you feel your at the Darkest point in your mind you find out who truly loves you and cares about you.

It doesn’t matter how hard you push away the one’s that love you will push back twice as harder just so you can see you are worthy.

Accept help and talking about your feelings and taking on board constructive advice.

I know it must sound so easy reading it on here but I know it takes a lot of courage to admit that you don’t feel ok.

More so aimed at men because some men won’t openly talk about feeling and emotions due to pride and ego.

Mind are a charity run help centre for anyone who needs help and support or just someone to talk through their dark days with.

Every year, one in four of us will experience a mental health problem. But hundreds of thousands of people are still struggling.

Mind believes that no one should have to face a mental health problem alone.

They listen, give you support and advice, and fight your corner.

With the right support and love from people around you.

You will pull through the bad times and be a stronger person just please please don’t suffer in silence use the helplines and trust the people around that loved you even in your darkness and help you progress to the light.

Night ❤️

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️ ❤️

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ℍ𝕒𝕝𝕤𝕖𝕪 𝔹𝕖 𝕂𝕚𝕟𝕕

Artists: Halsey, Marshmello

Album: Be Kind
Released: 2020

Wanna believe, wanna believe
That you don’t have a bad bone in your body
But the bruises on your ego make you go wild, wild, wild, yeah
Wanna believe, wanna believe
That even when you’re stone cold, you’re sorry
Tell me why you gotta be so out of your mind, yeah

I know you’re chokin’ on your fears
Already told you I’m right here
I will stay by your side every night

I don’t know why you hide from the one

And close your eyes to the one
Mess up and lie to the one that you love
When you know you can cry to the one
Always confide in the one
You can be kind to the one that you love
Ah

I know you need, I know you need

The upper hand even when we aren’t fighting
‘Cause in the past, you had to prepare every time, yeah
Don’t wanna leave, don’t wanna leave
But if you’re gonna fight then do it for me
I know you’re built to love, but broken now, so just try, yeah

I know you’re chokin’ on your fears

Already told you, I’m right here
I will stay by your side every night

I don’t know why you hide from the one

And close your eyes to the one
Mess up and lie to the one that you love
When you know you can cry to the one
Always confide in the one
You can be kind to the one that you love
Ah

I know it’s hard for you, but it’s not fair

Going sick in the head tryna get you there
And I know it’s hard for you, but it’s not fair
It’s not fair

I don’t know why you hide from the one

And close your eyes to the one
Mess up and lie to the one that you love
When you know you can cry to the one
Always confide in the one
You can be kind to the one that you love
Ah
Ah
When you know you can cry to the one
Always confide in the one
You can be kind to the one that you love
Ah

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Be Kind Halsey

Stacie 😊 😊

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ℍ𝕠𝕨 𝕥𝕠 𝕒𝕥𝕥𝕣𝕒𝕔𝕥 𝕒 𝕧𝕚𝕣𝕘𝕠 𝕨𝕠𝕞𝕖𝕟…

Heya all.

Its Sunday and where has the weekend gone.

Another week approaching again stay strong stay safe.

Yesterday i was a little bit inside my own head trying to wrap my head around things.

Sometimes you end up tying your thoughts in knots and making yourself ill so i decided to go for a social distance run on my local coastal path.

It really got me thinking about what i want from life and the company i keep.

Trying to get people to value who you are is a difficult task when all they ever see is their own gain from the situation.

So this afternoon I’ve decided to blog about Virgos yes i am one myself.

So im connecting on all levels here and i have some knowledge to share.

Weither your in a partnership or friendship with a virgo and you find us a little bit hard to read well i have some insights here for you all.

A virgo women isn’t afraid to say how she feels sometimes shes too open with emotions.

But when the information isn’t received by the other party we don’t take to lightly to rejection or misunderstanding of characteristics.

We want people to to understand our need for space and sometimes quite time.

Without people feeling weird around us we dont mean to make people feel that way we are just processing our surroundings.

Now virgo likes to flirt but on their own terms dont come on to strong or vulgar it puts us of people quickly which could lead to virgo dismissing the connection all together.

Good conversation is needed but not constant talking as ive said before virgo likes quite time.

We don’t feel awkward in quite situations we are again processing our surroundings and trying to connect to your energy.

Now ego where do i start with this…

We do love someone who’s got direction in life but even if they haven’t got their life in order we still love them anyway.

But we dislike a huge egotistical presence.

Being confident and egotistical aren’t in the same bracket infact being confident is quite attractive to a virgo but being egotistical isn’t something we look for in a partnership or a freindship.

You know the types of people who are all me, me, me.

Never ask you about your lifestyle it’s all about them virgo isn’t down for that.

A virgo can be a very good soulmate connection for someone who’s willing to compromise and work on situations.

A virgo will disagree if they dont agree with other peoples views on life.

We are strong-willed and can be stubborn at times but we see at the end of it all everything worked out the way it was intended.

Virgos love unconditionally and give everything they have for that one true soulmate.

And they dont give up so easily.

A connection with a virgo will be far from easy but it will be life changing and worth it.

They know their worth and know their limits when it comes to difficult situations.

Virgos are very passionate and with the right person and being able to let go of control they are the most passionate lovers.

But again if the virgo has deep down issues with confidence or self esteem this side to them will be hidden or even can be shown as standoffish behaviour or uninterested until they find themselves again.

We are quite unique virgos we have a lot to offer to another human being but don’t break a Virgos heart otherwise you will be in trouble.

Takes time for us to heal and we do forgive in time and even reconsider a connection again but it must be truthful honest and open when it comes to emotional issues.

To all you Virgos out there i send you love 😍

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️ ❤️

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𝕃𝕚𝕗𝕖𝕤 𝕥𝕠 𝕤𝕙𝕠𝕣𝕥 𝕥𝕠 𝕨𝕖𝕒𝕣 𝕓𝕠𝕣𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕔𝕝𝕠𝕥𝕙𝕖𝕤.

Happy Saturday All ❤️

I hope you’re all well.

I really want to share my recent boohoo haul with you.

I get lots of promotion discounts codes from boohoo.

So i decide to treat myself to a new outfit firstly ive ordered alot from boohoo over the past few years ive never been dissatisfied with my order its always turned up on time and perfectly packaged.

I get asked alot about the quality of the clothing and do i ever have any issues regarding sizing.

After loosing nearly three stone on the exante diet and being in lockdown ive found it hard to find clothes that i like and ive not got many clothes that fit me anymore due to weightloss and at the moment im living in my work clothes and pj’s.

I love to give myself a pick me up so I’ve ordered two skirts and two new summer tops over the past few weeks both hauls from boohoo.

At the moment im really into my prints before when i was larger in size.

I would never wear prints only ever black or plain clothing.

Loosing weight has definitely made more confident.

Both outfits cost under £25 gbp.

My first outfit was a black crop top with flowing animal print wrap skirt..

I’ve had a lot of comments on this outfit shoes where previously purchased from newlook.

The skirt was very comfortable and suited my curvy body shape.

I ordered size 14 in skirt and top.

The top wasn’t a short crop top but i felt it made the skirt stand out better again it even suited larger bust ladies.

Both items come to £24.99 including postage.

My second outfit i absolutely love and I can’t wait to wear it on a night out 😉

This outfit i had ordered a size 14 for both skirt and top again great fit skirt is so comfy would either look fabulous with heels or boots for a night time look or pair of converse or vans for day time look.

I can’t wait to wear it soon.

Being able to buy nice clothing and being able to feel great in them has made me want to reach weightloss goal even more.

Sounds silly really but coming from somone who’s always battled with weight issues i can’t discribe how i feel.

And thanks to boohoo for their amazing clothing range and fantastic affordable prices alongside quality and vaule for money again i would be happy to recommend them to you all.

If you have spare time have a look on their website link is below. 👇👇🔗

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Enjoy ♥️

Lots of love stacie ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

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𝕋𝕣𝕦𝕤𝕥 𝕥𝕙𝕖 𝕡𝕣𝕠𝕔𝕖𝕤𝕤

Morning all ❤️

That’s my working week done I’ve thoroughly enjoyed having Friday off and just having me time to exercise and catch up with things.

So its early Saturday morning and im really not tired even though sleeping remedy has been used my brain won’t shut up.

It’s really quite difficult switching your thoughts and your brain off before sleep.

You try and think why do i need to think about the most random things ever then spend the next three hours abusing Google for answers.

I really don’t know why we do it to ourselves.

So this evening my blog topic is trust the process.

This can be linked to different areas of your life.

I am the most impatient person ever if i want something i want it yesterday.

Yes im that bad.

But im ambitious in nature i can’t help that it must be my most annoying trait of my zodiac sign.

I like things done in such a way im always wanting to finish the task in hand myself.

Im not afraid of a challenge in life.

Since I’ve been on my path to self discovery I’ve found out alot about myself somethings i didnt like and ive made changes to my own personality and way of acting and thinking.

Im going to share somethings about myself my bad points and how ive made changes to the new and improved me.

In all my past relationships I’ve been hurt and cheated on like alot of people have this left me with my guard so high it touched out of space past the atmosphere.

Its a coping mechanism humans do to protect themselves.

Each time i fell in love and i got my heart broken i would bulid the wall a little bit higher.

The next relationship i got into i would always drag past issues into the next and i would always live in fear that i would have to go through it all again.

So instead I’d just withdraw myself and wouldn’t let anyone in.

Over time i didn’t even recognise myself.

I had become controlling, reserved, filled with fear & worry.

Confused why didn’t anyone just love me for me, what did i ever do so wrong.

Doubt kicked in maybe i didn’t love them right maybe i wasn’t perfect enough or what they expected in bed to be honest i don’t think i will ever know the truth.

Maybe now i don’t need to know.

Trying to control every last detail in your life and the people around you can be both mentally and physically draining.

I’ve realised now that over the years my issues with control have not only stopped great opportunities for me but i have also been suffocating myself and the people around me.

Not everything needs a plan, not everything matters, not everything is worth the worry.

You have to wait and trust the process.

If it happens it happens if it doesn’t then so be it let fate take its course.

I now understand that whatever awaits me I’ll deal with it when the time comes.

And trust the process along the way.

Love to you all 😊

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

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𝕆𝕕𝕕𝕚𝕥𝕪

𝓣𝓱𝓮 𝓑𝓮𝓼𝓽 𝓦𝓪𝔂 𝓣𝓸 𝓕𝓲𝓷𝓭 𝓨𝓸𝓾𝓻𝓼𝓮𝓵𝓯 𝓘𝓼 𝓣𝓸 𝓛𝓸𝓼𝓮 𝓨𝓸𝓾𝓻𝓼𝓮𝓵𝓯 𝓘𝓷 𝓣𝓱𝓮 𝓢𝓮𝓻𝓿𝓲𝓬𝓮 𝓞𝓯 𝓞𝓽𝓱𝓮𝓻𝓼.

Hiya all ❤️

Late night blogging again.

I hope you’re all doing OK.

Bit of a strange week im glad it’s Thursday last day at work im in need of much deserved rest.

Alot of issues not many solutions but nothing that a cup of English tea won’t sort out.

Oh and a bit of patience.

Which i don’t have much of.

Tonight my blog post is about being an oddity.

Have you ever felt like you just don’t fit in with you’re own surroundings.

Or the people you connect with.

Everyone has a master plan of life.

Go to school, get a job, fall in love, get married & have babies.

Some people like normality and want to follow the two point four kids lifestyle.

But things don’t always work out that way.

Even if we try to lead a normal life sometimes it can end up leaving us lost and not satisfied.

Being comfortable within your own soul and your own skin is a very beautiful feeling.

We spend decades hating our pasts, our mistakes and who we were.

But it’s your past experiences that made you a better version of yourself today.

Being your authentic self in a world that’s so judgemental is very tough going and it can have massive impact on your self esteem.

I used to care about what people thought about me. I let it effect my day, myself worth and it gave me serious doubts about myself.

So i tried to fit in hold back the real me.

Due to people criticising me.

But it didn’t work people will still talk its human nature.

You just have to learn to understand that other people’s opinions of you don’t matter let them think what they need to think.

Sometimes the deep rooted issue doesn’t lie with you but it lies with the person who judges you for just being you.

You have to keep being yourself and learn to….

Be kind to others respect your own boundaries and don’t be afraid to remove people from your circle who only ever bring drama to your door and try and dull your sparkle.

If people don’t want to give their time to you then honestly don’t give away yours so freely.

Be unique, find your passion, follow your heart most of all never let anyone try to change you and dull your sparkle.

Love to you all 😊 😊

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

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𝔻𝕠𝕟’𝕥 𝕗𝕠𝕣𝕘𝕖𝕥 𝕨𝕙𝕠 𝕪𝕠𝕦 𝕒𝕣𝕖.

Evening all ❤️

Monday is nearly over and tommrow is a new day.

After a bit more retail therapy and a little bit more self love im feelings more relaxed.

What a difference a bit of me time can make to your soul.

It’s really important that we understand that self love is very crucial in our own self discovery.

If we think negative about ourselves this can and will have a knock on affect to our self esteem.

We spend that much time on trying to love someone else and make them happy in a relationship.

That we loose ourselves in the process.

If your in a love connection that requires you to change who you are as a person.

That’s loving someone else but loosing yourself in process.

Its sad but true it’s happened to me on a number of occasions.

We try so hard to be the person thats required that you loose touch with your own soul.

Love shouldn’t be about trying to be that perfect person, that’s just setting yourself up for disaster from the start.

Love is about the good the bad and the ugly.

Someone seeing your strength and your weakness.

And still being by your side each day.

My nan always said how on earth are you going to allow anyone to love you if you don’t love yourself.

It’s not that everyone who loves themselves are vain it means that they’re comfortable in their own skin to admit.

That they have grown from the past and are able to find peace in their own soul rather than seeking validation from others.

Most important thing I’ve learnt is that it is OK to switch off from everyday life and people who bring negativity to the table.

It really doesn’t matter what other people’s perception of you is.

That’s not important what is important is how you see yourself.

Someone will love you for just simply being you.

No change is needed but always remember to put yourself on top of your own priority list.

And never change for anyone.

Love to you all

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

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𝔹𝕖 𝕄𝕚𝕟𝕕𝕗𝕦𝕝

Afternoon all ❤️

I really hope you are all ok .

Bit of a weird blog today about being mindful of others and of yourself.

Its not been a bad weekend but ive awoken today to feel somewhat very withdrawn in myself.

Ive got things on my mind.

Peoples coping mechanisms are different to others, i would rather withdraw than keep going over the same conversation about my emotional unbalances.

I don’t think i could find the correct words to explain, im no good at all that.

I’ve been called somethings in my time needy, obsessed, to much, attention seeker..

Thing is im none of them and i don’t see why i should get tarnished by these words when none of them are true.

Human beings can be incredibly cruel to each other.

Your forced onto a planet with people and forced to understand why they say the things they say and do the things they do.

And your meant to be ok with their behaviour however crappy it is.

Being kind doesn’t cost nothing it really doesn’t.

But what does cost something is either you loosing a relationship, freindship or family members.

With being kind i don’t mean you need to become soft and let people walk over you its about being mindful to others with words that come from your mouth.

The ones your in control of.

One word can change somones whole day.

In either a negative or a positive way, your actions are from within.

Im asking in such times we find ourselves in and thereafter to be Mindful of people’s emotions and thoughts.

Im fine with how ive grown i don’t need to prove to anyone who i am.

To anyone but myself….

If im withdraw and i dont get in touch its because im going through something or im just trying to get through this thing we call life.

Dont give space to people in your mind your heart or your life that aren’t mindful of your emotions.

It’s just not worth the heartbreak or time trying to explain to someone who’s only intentions was to get one over on you.

You dont need that sort of person in your life.

Keep safe, keep mindful, you are loved.

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

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