I’m Sorry

I’m Sorry

I’m so sorry for the hurt that I have caused.

The confusion the anger that put your life on pause.

I’m so sorry that I scared you with all my love to give.

I just wanted you to experience true love

I wanted you to live.

Although our life’s are different.

And we are miles apart.

Always know that I will always hold a special place for you in my heart.

Although I’ve said I’m sorry and I mean it from the deepest depths of my soul.

I know you will never love me.

And the river will always run cold.

The bridge we bulit between us.

I know you now have burnt.

And now I know that there’s a lesson..

here to be learnt.

I know there was a connection between us.

You felt it too.

It’s just so sad after all this time.

I really did think we would be alright.

Now we are like strangers in the night

It makes me sad how things have turned out.

I really do miss you that’s without a doubt.

So here I say sorry although at times you where unkind

They say that love is crazy they say that loves is blind.

To you it all may seem stupid

And after all this I dispise cupid.

But here I am in my truest form.

Offering my apologies

Offering you my warmth.

But now we are like ghosts

Or like we didn’t exist.

But we both know deep down it wasn’t suppose to end like this.

(Seashellsandlipgloss 2019)

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Live And Let Live

Hi everyone Monday is nearly officially done with.

Monday is always the toughest day of the week for me it gives me vibes about what kind of week I will have.

I’ve chosen my topic for today being open minded.

I think before I was very closed off and would shut any ideas of unknown territory down without a second thought.

Everyone is suppose to have a filter and stop ourselves from saying what’s on our minds well yeah I’ve not got one of those.

Safe to say I’m saying what I think and feel regardless of the situation.

I hate being lied to honesty is always the best policy.

I think knowing what you want from life from a job or a partner is a pretty amazing trait to have.

It means your not settling for anything less than what you deserve.

And in life and a partnership you have to be honest and be clear what you want weither it’s romanticly, sexually or just in life in general its important to keep an open mind.

Not everyone thinks and feels the same it’s human nature and its perfectly normal to have disagreements in freindships, relationships and in family connections.

But always remain open minded to others and their thoughts and feelings.

And forgiving yourself and others that have done you wrong is a great way of healing and embracing our own feelings and love for others.

The ability to still love someone after the hurt they have caused us is a very brave thing to do.

Humainty in itself is beautiful and how we all adjust to each other is amazing and in our darkest times we still manage to understand each other it’s called compassion.

I’m pretty much an open book.

I fully accept other peoples opinions even if I don’t agree it’s not my responsibility to judge others.

Live and let live I say.

Always remember to love yourself also within your lifetime.

Beacuse how can you let anyone else love you if you don’t love yourself.

Life is way to short to not say how you feel or not to express what you want in life just beacuse your scared of what others will say or think or what the outcome will be.

Do what makes you happy.

Love to you all 😊

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️ ❤️

Law of Attraction ❤️💜

Evening all happy Sunday evening 🌃

I hope you are all OK.

Tonight I wanted to blog about law of attraction ❤️

And how I’ve been using it to create a better me and a better life for myself.

So what is law of attraction.

The law of attraction is the attractive, magnetic power of the Universe that draws similar energies together. It manifests through the power of creation, everywhere and in many ways. Even the law of gravity is part of the law of attraction. This law attracts thoughts, ideas, people, situations and circumstances.

3 SIMPLE STEPS TO THE LAW OF ATTRACTION

STEP 1: ASK

Most people are familiar with the phrase “Ask, Believe, Receive.” While “Ask” is considered the first step of creation in the Law of Attraction, and we believe Asking is very important, it is only part of it. Before you ask, be sure it is what you truly wish for.

To start, give yourself time to be alone in silence, where you can sit and reflect on life. Get your computer, journal or notebook and allow the creative ideas to flow. Ask yourself. . .

“What are my dreams?”

“How about my desires?”

“What are my needs?”

“Where can I see myself going?”

“What do I love to do?”

“What is fun for me

STEP 2: BELIEVE

The next step is believing. At this stage, you intentionally visualize how you would like things to be. Afterward, you allow yourself to feel the feeling of that belief being fulfilled. You want to have unwavering faith that what you desire is coming to YOU.

As you visualize this, you have a strong knowing that it is already on its way!

Due to the buffer of time, things don’t always happen instantly. That’s okay. Stay positive. Sometimes impatience or doubt can creep in during this stage and completely reverse the creation.

STEP 3: RECEIVE

When you begin the receiving process of the Law of Attraction, congratulate yourself and CELEBRATE! You deserve it! This excitement will help the manifestation process fully come to fruition, possibly even accelerate it and exceeding your expectation.

Continue to live in positive emotions and realize and reflect on the true power that you’ve always had within you. You can achieve success like this in anything you apply these principals to.

Remember, this isn’t something you’ve just activated because you are conscious of it, it’s been working the entire time.

Now you know how to fully harness your power through the Law of Attraction. Every thought, word, and action forms a co-creation in the Universe. You do have the infinite power of co-creation.

I’ve applied law of attraction to my life over the past four months and what I’ve found that is if I stop trying to control everything and just let the universe do all the heavy work Im attracting more of what I want in life.

I have to say I’ve seen a massive change in myself from January this year.

Coming out of a bad transition and having a total new outlook in life has completely changed me.

Even if I still have a way to go…..

I know whatever I have coming next it’s what I’ve asked the universe for and it will happen when the time it right.

One step at a time.

Law of attraction is also a way of adding positive vibes to your life..

Life is to short as I’ve said before in previous posts and it really is.

Take that trip you always wanted to.

Fall in love

Change that job you dislike.

Follow your dreams.

But along the way ask for a little bit of help from the universe.

Love to you all 😊

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️

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What is Christmas?

It is tenderness for the past, courage for the present, hope for the future.

Hey happy Saturday all

Hope your well wherever you are in the world.

Today im blogging about the Christmas festivities.

Does anyone else think that 2019 has litterly flown by I’m Actually glad farewell to a complicated, stressful and big f**k you to uncertainty of a year that’s just been an absolute nightmare to deal with.

Its not all been bad apart from the drama I’ve actually learnt alot this year…

Not to give away to much love to people who don’t deserve it.

To learn to love myself in difficult situations.

To let go of the past and just to enjoy what I have and who I have around me.

Best part is learning not to give a 💩 what people think of me.

And I’m cool with that..

So back to Christmas..

I always try and enjoy Christmas even if it can be quite and emotional time.

Weither you share Christmas with loved ones or not it can still be an emotional time of the year.

Everyone’s pushing and shouting in shops and stressed about a turkey.

But in all honesty Christmas is about spending time with the people you love and care about and who love and care about you.

To me it’s not about presents and amount of money spent it’s all about the love and making memories because that’s what’s truly priceless.

I have a busy few weeks ahead in between working all week got few things planned with my girls so my weekends will be taken up and Christmas will be here before we know it.

So here’s a few things I’ve got planned

Christmas markets with hot chocolate.

Santa visit

Christmas drinks catching up with friends .

Night out.

Oh and plenty of Christmas movies.

Sounds amazing so I’m not flying out to New York this year for my trip to the rockerfeller tree 🎄.

But its definitely on the itinerary for next year 🎁🎄⛄☃️

I’m hoping to see my parents, my sister and niece before Christmas unfortunately this year I won’t be seeing them on Christmas day but I’m sure me and the girls will have a great time.

So look out for a future posts over the next few weeks to see what I get up to on the run up to Christmas day.

Here’s a few pics so far..

So dont be a grinch this year..

Have a good evening all ❤️

Love to you all 😊

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

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If it’s destroying you it isn’t love my dear

Hey evening all ❤️

Hope you’re all well..

Fingers crossed this weeks going well 🤞🤞

Going straight into my blog post this evening.

I received an email from a lady named Rebecca she lives in the 🇬🇧

She didn’t mind me naming her and enlightening you all on a situation she has been going through she just wanted honest advice.

I really treasure that she felt like she could contact me and ask for my imput.

Rebecca emailed me to get some clarification on a guy she’s involved with I do get a lot of requests privately and I do my best to help anyway I can.

This is the message she sent me….

Dear stacie

I absolutely love your blog your so true with your words.

I can really relate to you and your life experiences.

I’m looking for answers regarding a romantic situation I seem to find myself in.

Here is a brief history regarding my situation.

I’ve know Mr x for a few years now we have mutual friends between us so we always used to see each other at parties and events.

I’ve got to admit I’ve always had a little bit of a crush on him.

But as we where friends I never wanted to overstep the boundaries.

Over two years ago we both found ourselves single.

It was a very difficult time for us both & I think both of our negativty pulled us together.

But not in the way I expected it to things didn’t quite work out well for us.

Im now left feeling very confused and wondering if there’s anything we can salvage between us. .

At the moment we are not communicating due to arguments but I’m being told he’s been looking at my social media profiles.

Please help me make sense of this situation as I feel like I’m going out my mind.

Love Rebbeca xx

So here it goes….

When it comes to men they are complicated creatures.

It’s very hard to read a man and what he’s feeling when he’s unsure himself about a situation.

Leaves us thinking…

Everything can be going great suddenly things just change and its out of your control.

Men don’t think like us women and I don’t mean that to sound sexcist but they don’t.

We all want to live in a perfect world live happily with people who love us but finding that special someone takes time and you will make mistakes and get your heart broken in the process.

I’m not saying either that all men are the same but commitment and men don’t mix unless their ready for it.

You can’t force anything

Here’s ten ways to…

Handle to Dating a Commitment-Phobe

1 Ask What Their Relationship Goals Are.

2.Commitment-phobes tend to have a lot of short-term

3.relationships and are serial daters. ..

4. Give Yourself a Timeline. .

..5.Make Sure Your Own Needs are Met. …
6.Don’t Rush Them. …

7.Give Them Space. …
8.Try and Get Them to Open Up More. …

9. Avoid Nagging Them About It. …
10.Understand That They May Never Commit.

Being in a state of confusion and heartbreak is terrible and it can really mess with someone’s head.

I would be telling you to be honest but I feel when someone’s like…

What is there left to do but wonder and wait.

No absolutely not don’t wait he’s obviously unsure or maybe a little bit frightened to get too close so he leaves you feeling

Confused and anxious men have this ability for tunnel vision they only see was in front of them not what’s surrounding them.

And often they end up loosing out on something special in life due to fear of falling to deep.

Maybe it’s past emotions or experiences that have planted a deep-rooted seed of doubt in their minds

But what we allow from the past always effects our future.

This is why men push away anything good in fear of the past recurring in their future.

So my advice Rebecca is that don’t dwell to much on what he wants and focus on yourself.

If he’s checking your social media I feel he’s still attached to you somewhere or he’s just being nosey to see if you have moved on either way leave him to it.

Just live your life make your own progress you deserve more than unanswered questions.

Never let your love of someone distroy you ever.

I’m sure whatever went down within your relationship weither it be negative or postive you will both eventually forgive each other and either move on or progress forward.

I really hope I’ve helped Rebecca..

Sending love to you all..

No men where hurt in this blog post I hope 🤞🤞❤️

Love stacie xxx

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Ask and you shall receive 🌌

Good evening all ❤️

It’s Monday and I’ve been super busy with work and mum duties.

But Mondays not been so bad as of yet…

I’ve got to share this very weird situation I’ve been in today.

So after I watched another lovely ladies blog she was talking about asking the universe for what you want she had tried asking the universe questions and got her clarification.

she’s a women who’s been through a lot of ups and downs like most of us and who is just trying to repair her life and look towards the future..

So I decided to give it a try you see I’ve been in a very confusing state the past few months and I’ve been very undecided on what to do next so I’m actually at the point where I will give anything a try.

I can’t directly get the answers I need to move forward as unfortunately I’m cut off.

As you can imagine that’s beyond my abilities to sort out the situation when someone cuts you off so I will basically try anything.

Unfortunately I’m not going to discuss what I asked the universe but what I will tell you what the outcome was.

I was waking to work this am music on feeling this vibe like I needed to try something to help with the healing.

And I remembered stephs post and wondered what if it really does work.

What I’m about to share with you, you may think I’m some right fruit loop (crazy person).

So after the sun started to rise over a cold icy misty morning I thought sod it anythings is worth a try.

I cleared my mind asked the question in my head and I gave the universe two options for my answers for yes I said show me pink hearts for no show me green hearts.

So I waited listing to my music minding my own business within five minutes I got my answer this is no lie the road I walk down is mostly quite that time of the morning it’s very close to the countryside but low and behold I got my answer first pink heart I saw I actually thought that’s rubbish coincidence or what !!!!

Then literally every third car I saw from the last had a pink heart for a car scent hanging from the rear view mirror.

So I thought OK feeling slightly freaked out at this point right I’m going to ask you one more question universe as I don’t want to over push the boundaries.

So I asked the second question this time I asked for blue heart for yes and a yellow heart for no.

I thought blue and yellow hearts are pretty rare to see out and about with my walk to work being mainly countryside and housing and a little village before I get to actual work I thought what’s the odds

And!!!!!!

Low and behold within a few minutes I got my answer I was very shocked to say the least It was only then I felt a sense of amazement.

I suppose you want to know the outcome it was….

I don’t get lost for words much but honstly I’m normally so sceptical about things like this but I’m now a big believer that ask and you will receive your answers you have been searching for.

Call me deluded call me a fruit loop but now I know my answers to the questions I needed clarification from I will just carry on with my future plans.

You know they say we are all psychic and can connect with higher vibrations.

Again I must state I’m not religious I’m more spiritual I always have been but suppose I closed myself off due to. Other life issues.

I also asked the universe to show me answers through music as I listen to music a hell of alot and again these two songs stopped me in my tracks…

Please give them a listen.. 👇👇👇👇👇

Home to you by sigrid

I’m yours by Andy grammar

If your unsure in life and feel like your at a loss ask the universe for help ask for clarification and guidance and then wait for your answer.

So If you would like to give it a try then follow the steps below 👇 👇

1. Clear your mind

2. Think about the question you need answers to.

3. Ask universe the question

4. Tell the universe to show you in two elements for example.

💜 For yes ❤️ for no.

5. Wait for results you may see them numerous of times throughout the day.

6. Thank the universe for your clarification.

Signs can come in objects, pictures, songs, sounds & words.

Remember it’s not silly to ask the universe for what you want or for answers however mental you may sound to. Others around you.

Have a great evening all

Love to you all 😊 😊

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️ ❤️

When You Have Burnt the bridge Bulid a Boat.

Found the truth beneath your lies
And true love never has to hide
True love never has to hide
I’ll trade your broken wings for mine
Trade your broken wings for mine
I’ve seen your scars and kissed your crime
Seen your scars and kissed your crime…

Beyoncé (All night)

Hey everyone it’s Sunday hope your all well wherever you are in the world.

I’m really hoping for a better week this week so fingers crossed as I’m waiting for important news 🤞🤞.

Finalising a stage in my life I’m well happy to move forward in.

I was taking to my friend this afternoon she was giving me a lecture on me getting lip fillers again 🙄.

I can see she’s just worried I’m addicted but I’m really not I just hate the fact of getting old.

I feel I have to be happy within myself to be at peace and and If a small procedure like that makes me happy and I’m careful about the amount.

There isn’t any harm!!!

So I bet your wondering what my blog title is all about?? 🤔

Well we all know what happens when you burn bridges it’s a meterphor for no turning back your done with a situation.

You burn that bridge and there’s no way you can retrace your steps but what if you built a boat and crossed back to the other side and retraced old steps and tried to right all the wrongs.

I know your probably all thinking why on earth would you want to go back and retrace all that negativity.

Well what if it’s unfinished bussiness and both parties have had time to heal and grow as individuals.

Is it always to late to change the outcome or are we as human beings delusional in every way possible.

I think personally it depends on the emotional aspect from each individual.

Me personally I hate unfinished bussiness but sometimes you don’t get to close the deal 🤝

You just have to file away that section of your past under unsolvable.

It doesn’t matter what you do if the other party won’t participate your really at a complete loss.

I would say I’m a strong individual and I can also be very difficult to understand.

I can also find out more shit than the F. B. I if needed.

But what I’m trying to get across is that if you want to bulid that boat and dip your toe on the otherside of that river go do it.

It might be a complete waste of time and effort.

But who cares its your life.

I don’t think I could ever push away someone who has left footprints in my life or on my heart however much they have hurt or betrayed me it’s just not in my nature.

So If you feel like you need to row row row your boat to uncertainty go do it.

It really doesn’t matter what people say or do it’s your life.

Always remember that.

Have a great evening all ❤️

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️ xxx

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#selfcare

#buildaboat

Last line of defense 💞

Hey everyone happy Saturday ❤️

I hope you’re all well and having a great day.

I’ve been deep in thought today after a very odd dream and Ive been left with a heavy feeling I’ve been carrying in my heart all day.

I can’t seem to shift it.

Creating head space when you can’t seem to still understand or get the closure you need from the past Is mentally draining it’s like I’ve been on the front line fighting for such a long time this is my last line of defense my last chance to reach out.

The only way I can describe what it’s like inside my mind it is that I’m standing on a battlefield eyes closed I can hear shots being fired around me I can feel the heat of the explosions on my skin there are people around me crying out but all I can do summon up the strength get out alive seems pretty selfish I know.

Pretty deep interpretation also but I feel like I’m fighting everyday of my life and I’m not really sure what for.

Mentally I’m in a better place honstly but I just would love to know why the universe keeps showing me things that’s related to one part of my past I know I will never get answers or closure to.

So what do we do in times like this do we just ignore move on act like nothing happened…

or do we take a deep breath straighten out our souls and find the courage and seek the answers ourselves.

Why do people wait and what for.

When is the right time I don’t think there is one if I’m honest.

Maybe it’s fear maybe it’s your need to see if the grass is greener on the otherside.

But what I do know is that somewhere out there is someone for everyone and people are scared to be open and honest incase feelings aren’t reciprocated life’s to short to wonder what if.

If you expressed how u feel and its what you want to hear then great act upon it and if it’s not well you got your answer at least you can figure out where to go and what to do next without regrets.

Some situations aren’t ideal and can be scary I understand that but you will never get no where in life staying in your comfort zone.

And always remember to someone out there you could mean everything and more to them.

Someone who will laugh with you at the good times and cry with you at the bad times.

Love takes work it takes courage and patience there isn’t anything out that that’s perfect always remember that.

So make that choice to hold on or let go but do it without regret with our fear but remember everything takes time.

Please give this link below a watch it’s such an awesome song by Lewis Capaldi speaks straight from my heart ♥

rush by Lewis Capaldi

Love to you all 😊

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️ ❤️