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𝕊𝕥𝕒𝕣𝕕𝕦𝕤𝕥 𝕊𝕠𝕦𝕝

Evening all ❤️

Im blogging from my garden on this gorgeous summers evening here in Merseyside.

I’ve not blogged much this week I’ve been busy inbetween work and home life.

Tonight’s blog post isn’t about the outstanding artist called David Bowie unfortunately.

Its about finding your unique self in a world that expects you to be mediocre.

This is coming from someone who’s always tried to fit in and in time finding out that it only ever makes everyone else happy but not yourself.

None of us where made in perfect form.

We all have faults, dark desires and talents that we are too scared to share with the world.

It all comes down to confidence and being worried about what others will think if you show your true self.

In the past I’ve allowed fear to show a untrue side of my personality to someone who was very special to me all down to fear of letting them in.

That side of me wasn’t good and it ended up pushing them away.

And at this time in my life everything was messy more messy than what i would like to admit but it Brought a side out of me that wasn’t very nice.

And i pay for that everyday.

I didn’t have the confidence to be myself because i felt i wouldn’t be what they expected me to be.

Trying to hard to be perfect ended up showing a different side to me.

Only if i had shown the geeky, silly side, fun side to myself then outcome may have been different.

One thing i learnt from it all was it’s ok to show your true self your good, bad and ugly days.

No one is perfect all the time and anyone who expects you to be is on another planet..

Being unique is the most beautiful thing because why would you want to follow other’s.

We aren’t born to be sheep.

Doesn’t matter we shouldn’t judge each other.

I know it’s not always easy to be happy in our own skin but confidence takes time to build and be happy in our own skin.

But it’s important to love yourself and show your true self to others.

Being confident doesn’t mean your vain it means that you have your ducks in a row all you need to do now is Just add a little bit of sass and stardust to your own soul and show yourself love.

Love you all.

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️ ❤️

#seashellsandlipglossblog

#life#blogger ❤️

𝕀𝕥’𝕤 𝕛𝕦𝕤𝕥 𝕝𝕚𝕗𝕖, 𝕀𝕥’𝕝𝕝 𝕓𝕖 𝕠𝕧𝕖𝕣 𝕓𝕖𝕗𝕠𝕣𝕖 𝕨𝕖 𝕜𝕟𝕠𝕨 𝕚𝕥.

Are we living or just existing.

Are we composed and consistent.

One day we are here and the next we are not.

We have to cherish all that we have got.

Its not about money or the treasures you seek.

Just to simply be happy and the memories we keep.

Don’t be scared to say how you feel.

Because even after all this time we allow ourselves to heal.

Be grateful for love be grateful for pain be grateful for the sun and the rain.

Be grateful for the air that you breathe.

Be grateful for the dreams but you must believe.

We all get one chance to walk the earth as us.

Be present be proud and learn to adjust.

Learn to love with all your heart.

Even when times get tough and you’re apart.

Beacuse all that matters in the end.

Is who we become next my friend.

Stacie Leanne 22/06/2020

#seashellsandlipglossblog.

𝕋𝕙𝕖 ℍ𝕒𝕣𝕕𝕖𝕣 𝕋𝕙𝕖 ℝ𝕒𝕚𝕟, ℍ𝕠𝕟𝕖𝕪, 𝕋𝕙𝕖 𝕊𝕨𝕖𝕖𝕥𝕖𝕣 𝕋𝕙𝕖 𝕊𝕦𝕟.

Evening all ❤️

Late night blogging again for me it’s the best time for me to blog when it’s quite and i have time to reflect.

Tonight’s blog post is mostly about overcoming tough situations and moving forward with your life.

You can grieve in life for people who are still present in life it may sound a little strange but we do.

When someone passes we know they have gone psychically from our lives.

We grieve but over time it becomes less painful.

Not for everyone but in majority of case’s this is true.

But when you grieve for a loss of another human being that’s still present that’s where it cuts deep into your soul.

Your forever left wondering what if…

I found myself in this situation around a year ago maybe a little bit longer than a year but who knows.

My life came tumbling down around me it affected every part of who i was and it really affected my self worth.

Im not going to give you ten steps to deal with it in this blog post because i want to be completely honest with you all.

It was tough i had to take each day at a time.

Very mixed emotions i felt so stupid about it all.

I actually felt like it was never going to end.

But it did the one thing I learned from this situation was it didn’t matter how long you held on for in the end if it was meant to be it would of been.

You can keep over analysing every second it won’t change the past.

It’s been a painful process but a huge learning curve for me and a huge wake up call.

Not everything always works out in your favour in life we just have to deal with it the best we can.

You either let its consume you or let it change you.

Im a lot stronger now than what i was before and I’ve found my peace.

Now I’ve come through it and im on the other side my outlook on life, love and happiness has completely changed.

Remember this the storm maybe freighting at the time but after a storm comes the sunshine and then the sunshine brings the rainbow that’s where you will join me and many others on a road to self discovery.

If i can do it so can you…

Here’s a great track called No Plan from Hozier… 👇👇👇

No Plan hozier

Love to you all 😊

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️ ❤️

#seashellsandlipglossblog

#life

#blogger

#ukbloggers

#loveyourself

TLM Foundation Review

Evening all ❤️

Im going to get straight with the program here and go ahead with my blog to give insight on a product that I’ve been asked to review.

I first saw this product advertised on my Facebook account news feed.

I received a few emails regarding this product and what my thoughts were and if i had tried it.

I also had a work colleague who had brought this product and to be honest I was a little skeptical on how the product actually works for every skin tone.

So i went ahead and purchased it for £4.95 from ebay making sure it was the real deal beforehand.

You have to be so careful there’s alot of copies out there that contain harmful ingredients.

Always do your research beforehand when buying from other retailers and ebay.

So heres a little bit about the product…

TLM Colour Changing Foundation is a revolutionary new liquid foundation that goes on white and instantly self-adjusts to match your EXACT skin tone.

Our unique color-matching formula protects and moisturizes the skin as it works to even out your complexion.

This foundation contains SPF 15 sun protection to shield your skin from harmful UVA and UVB rays. It is designed for daily use and will give your skin that illuminating silky finish other foundations just don’t provide.

The exclusive shade-sensing beads are activated by pressure upon application. So, as the makeup is thoroughly blended into the skin, it intuitively transforms to your skin tone for all day, natural-looking color in your perfect shade.

✅ Waterproof
✅ Fade-proof
✅ Totally Transfer-Resistant

So what’s stacie’s verdict???

Im not going to lie i was very skeptical im used to using brand named beauty products.

I find products that suit my skin and i tend to stick to the brands my skin is used too.

But im open to trying new things for my followers.

Overall i was impressed with packaging i could tell it wasn’t a fake product which was a good start.

I have to say its very white when it comes out of the pump action system.

I was absolutely convinced its wasn’t going to blend in with my skin tone but after a few minutes its started to adjust.

It made my skin feel quite firm and it made a very good base for a powdered product.

I would have to say that i wouldn’t use the product if i was going out for a night out i dont feel its a strong enough cover for a long lasting night out.

But its absolutely perfect for natural cover and everyday use but it could be a great base for longer lasting foundation for longer coverage.

The smell is quite pleasant too it actually doesn’t cake on your face either which is great.

I would recommend you use either a beauty blender or a good foundation brush for even coverage.

Im going to give tlm…

direct website link TLM

Love to you all 😊

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄

#seashellsandlipglossblog

#life

#blogger

#ukbloggers

𝕊𝕥𝕒𝕟𝕕𝕓𝕪 𝔽𝕠𝕣 𝕋𝕒𝕜𝕖𝕠𝕗𝕗 ✈️

Afternoon all ❤️

I hope you’re all well considering.

Haven’t blogged for a few days I’ve been so busy and my life has really taken off in a way i could never imagine.

I have had to pinch myself a few times.

Unfortunately im not going on a trip anywhere but me and my friends are absolutely itching to get away for a few days in the sunshine.

Until then its just my life progressing in many ways.

I really didn’t think when i started blogging that anyone would find me interesting.

Im not going into my past to much in this post because its all about moving forwards not going back but I’ve always been put down and told i wasn’t good enough my whole life but I’ve worked so hard these past few months im happy its finally starting to pay off.

Don’t get me wrong im still the same old stacie i will never let ego overcome my personality.

But im less vulnerable and a lot more stronger.

Buliding a brand makes you evolve its changes your life.

In no way shape or form did i think i would ever come this far.

Im just a girl from west midlands 🇬🇧

That’s now based in Liverpool.

Growing up i wasn’t the smartest child in the class but im talented in other ways.

Between friendship and relationships people wouldn’t get to know me the real me but now people see the real me because i choose to show the real, the raw and the truthful side of me.

Your always going to get hate for doing something with your life.

But it’s better to be hated for achieving than living with regrets.

Remember no one has the right to tell you what you can and can’t do in life…

So…

And believe in yourself put the effort in and it will come back to you.

Postive = greatness 👍

Negative = nothing 👎

Love to you all 😊

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️

#seashellsandlipglossblog

#life

#blogger

#ukbloggers

#selfcare

ℙ𝕠𝕨𝕖𝕣𝕝𝕖𝕤𝕤 𝕎𝕚𝕥𝕙𝕠𝕦𝕥 𝕐𝕠𝕦𝕣 ℝ𝕖𝕒𝕔𝕥𝕚𝕠𝕟.

Evening all ❤️

I really hope you are all OK.

Firstly I’ve been wanting to blog about this subject for a while now.

It’s all about how the more you give to people the more they take from you.

It doesn’t always mean materialistic items.

But it’s more your time, energy and emotion.

You see im a kind person i love to help others empower others.

But there are some people out there who are like emotional vampires.

They will suck the happiness right out of you.

I want to share a few steps this evening on how to spot an emotional vampire and how to deal with them.

Here we go…

1. The I’m never happy for you person.

These types of people have most annoying personality traits.

They are very rarely happy or show any enthusiasm towards anything positive about a situation or have personal goals

They are simply stuck in a state of negative thought patterns.

Never talk to these types of people about your future goals because their negativity then becomes your insecurity.

2. The Debbie downer.

I apologise to anyone called debbie im sure your not all this way..

This is a nick name i call people that are always in a state of despair.

The slightest incident sends them tumbling over the edge.

You can ask them how was your day and you get everything good the bad and the ugly before you know it your feeling rubbish and low yourself.

I avoid people like this because you will never win over this type of person only thing you will do is drain your own energy as they don’t take advice.

3. Its all me, me, me and me somemore.

Have you ever been in a situation or conversation where it’s all one sided.

So frustrating you cannot seem to get a word in edgeways.

When they finally let you speak but the conversation then reverts back to them it a massive no no to me..

A connection means equal parts give and take and respecting the other people’s experiences.

Without judgement or reverting back to oneself.

4. Moan, moan moan.

As they say if you don’t have nothing nice to say don’t say nothing at all.

We all like a good moan but for god sake that’s all some people do.

I’ve literally not got the time or the patience for people who just moan but never do anything to change the situation.

If you don’t like where you are then move your not a tree.

5.The mr loverman.

This one’s for us ladies that fella who thinks he’s fell off thors golden cloud and hit every unemotional, noncommittal tree on the way down.

The one’s that play with our hearts themselves and other women in the process are very emotionally draining creatures never under any circumstances try and get this type of man to try and commit because he won’t.

Trust me i know that’s ten years of my life i will never get back.

Im not saying people don’t have issues in life i understand fully that people go through very tough times but balance is needed in life between light and dark.

But you need to learn in life how to recharge your soul and to try and avoid situations that can be mentally and physically draining for your own soul.

Sometimes best possible outcome is to remove yourself from the situation and refrain from future contact.

It’s easier said than done but it can be done.

Don’t give someone your power or let them take over your soul.

The less you react to their emotions and negativity the less power they get from your reaction.

Love to you all 😊

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄

#seashellsandlipglossblog 😍

𝔾𝕒𝕥𝕙𝕖𝕣 𝕆𝕦𝕣 𝕋𝕙𝕠𝕦𝕘𝕙𝕥𝕤

What are you thinking said the star to the moon.
Im Within deep thought i will reveal all soon.

The star kept on shining but the moon remained perplexed.
Why oh why is everything so complex.

We are way up above we see all that’s below.
I have so much knowledge that could make them all grow.

The star listen closely to the voice of the moon.
How six months had passed now it’s june.

We have seen death and destruction & chaos in its worst form.

But what i most fear said the moon it’s the calm before the storm.

We have seen such love and compassion.
But the negativity still spreads like its gone out of fashion.

The star replied its such a burden to share.
The moon replied its because i still care.

I’ve never lost hope that the human race will all see.

That times have moved forward from what used to be.

What will remain will need to change.
And I’ll need to up my game.

From way up high we see all
We will never ignore mother earth’s call.

But all we can do now star is learn from our source.

Keep it all hidden and gather our thoughts.

Stacie Leanne 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️
16th June 2020

𝔾𝕚𝕧𝕖 𝕐𝕠𝕦𝕣𝕤𝕖𝕝𝕗 𝕋𝕚𝕞𝕖

Evening all ❤️

I hope you’re all ok and having a nice weekend.

Again current situations that are going on mean that we are limited in life for now.

I don’t feel that life will ever be the same again and if im honest with you things needed to change we all needed a wake up call physically and emotionally.

This was definitely it.

Ive not been so chatty as of late I’ve been busy behind the scenes so to speak.

During the quietness I’ve done extensive thinking and I’ve started to put plans in place.

Ive been reading the book the secret for a while now and trying to understand the meaning of why things happen in life the way they do.

You have two options i see in life when you have been delt with bad situations.

You either let it consume you.

Or you either learn from it and let it go.

There’s is no point in dwelling on the past what is done is done.

No point keep crying over something or someone whos not crying over you.

The past twelve weeks ive learnt so much about myself and about others around me.

I’ve learnt im incredibly lucky..

And everything I’ve been through in the past has made me a much stronger person.

I know my worth, my strength, my abilities and my weaknesses.

I’ve learnt its ok to feel emotions and not feel like a complete mess by doing so.

I’ve been putting positive vibes into the..

Universe 🌌

Switch your focus to the positive and watch the game change.

Let yourself stay in fear in the presence and you will never evolve.

Im happy with my little family, my close friends, my job and my place of sanctuary i call my home.

Im lucky i know that its a blessing to have such opportunities and working hard behind the scenes keeps others guessing and keeps yourself progressing.

Always rise after you fall my biggest regret is that i didn’t find myself or love myself sooner.

But now i know my worth.

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Enjoy the rest of your evening all.

Love to you all 😊 😊 😊

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️

#seashellsandlipglossblog

#life

#blogger

#ukbloggers

#love

#spiritual

𝕀’𝕞 𝕊𝕥𝕚𝕝𝕝 𝕊𝕥𝕒𝕟𝕕𝕚𝕟𝕘.

“You know I’m still standing better than I ever did
Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid
I’m still standing after all this time
Picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind”

Evening all ❤️

I hope your all ok

Welcome to tonight’s late night blogging session.

Im currently listening to a very inspirational man sir Elton John.

I absolutely love elton john even though he has had very dark demons in his personal life it never showed in his music career he isn’t shy to share what he’s experienced & how he’s overcome them.

That’s what makes him unique.Im still standing reminds me of how much I’ve been through and how ive overcome my own demons.

Songs that make you feel empowered are the best songs of all.Im so sick of sadness and hurt and waiting around for something that will never happen im done.

If people want me they know how to reach me but I’m completely done putting all the effort in.

There’s only so much time and effort you can put into a severed connection.

Why do we wait and what for.Like i said im done.

Im not angry, im not sad im just disappointed in myself too.

You can be the most genuine person on the planet and people will still pick away at you for faults.

I think im past the stage of making others happy and hurting myself in the process.Im worth alot more than my past and now i know that.

Im done at picking away at myself always trying to find answers at why, when and whats next.Its quite funny i once got told im too sassy…

Maybe i am maybe im not we are something in someone’s eyes.

A person perception of you isn’t important its how you see yourself that’s what matters.

How you feel, how you live life and how you respect yourself that’s what’s important.

Never break your own dam heart by trying to fix someone else’s.

So to whoever reads my blog and feels a litte downtrodden by people who are supposed to love and support you.

Remember this take back your own power and make your self shine.

Never let anyone dull your spirit

.Love to you all

😊 😊 😊Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️#seashellsandlipglossblog #life #empowerment

𝔾𝕒𝕞𝕖 𝕔𝕙𝕒𝕟𝕘𝕖𝕣

Evening all ❤️

I have to start by saying sorry for my late night rambling on last nights blog.

I’ve just been going through something, transtion is tough but so am i.

My blog isn’t ways full of helpful information it’s just me myself and my thoughts.

Tonight’s blog hopefully makes more sense.

After talking to my friend this evening i think she mentioned that it seems everyone seems to be feeling a little off at the moment im guessing it’s possibly how things are in the world and how the energy is all over the place.

Seem a lot of uncertainty and negativity around.

Im an empath.. I feel everything

But what is an empath
An empath is someone who is highly aware of the emotions of those around them, to the point of feeling those emotions themselves.

Empaths see the world differently than other people; they’re keenly aware of others, their pain points, and what they need emotionally.

So basically we are like walking emotional sponges we pick up on people feelings and pain without the other party knowing we do so.

Sometimes it’s very overwhelming, we aren’t just only dealing with our own issues but we are also sensitive to other people which when combined can causes complete energy drain and feeling very low in mood.

Only way we can recharge is to take ourselves away from certain situations.

Signs your empathetic.

I’ve been dealing with this for a very long time.

At time’s it’s tough as of late i knew i had to change the game completely new way of seeing life and situations i find myself in.

You can’t keep pouring from an empty cup.

You need to think if I’m not taking care of me then who will.

It’s important to remember self love and learning to respect yourself.

It’s ok giving all that love and time to people but remember to keep abit back for yourself.

Its important you’re important.

Never forget that.

Love to you all 😊 😊

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️

#seashellsandlipglossblog #life #ukblogger