What’s yours will always find you.

Hey I’m sorry I’ve not blogged for a while it’s been an extremely hectic and draining few weeks for me.

If truth be told its situations I really couldn’t find it in my heart to blog about.

Just couldn’t find the words to discribe how Ive been feeling.

I’m over the worst part and in all it wasn’t one of my roughest rides but still I’ve learnt valuable lessons.

Life has a funny way of dealing us with a bad hand at the most calmest moments in life.

But now I’m back more focused more determined than ever to fight to get myself back to who I truly am.

I have lots of happy memories and also sad ones but life goes on things come back to us for a reason…

Having this feeling of always wanting and needing more can overtake what you have here and now..

People are so focused on the goal in life they forget to enjoy the process and learning factors in life.

Everybody makes mistakes everyone f××ks up its only human.

But don’t hold on to them learn from them and let go…

I’ve got a lot to look forward next few months lots of important and exciting opportunities are coming my way.

But again I need to find balance between both home and work life and also my potential.

This year….

Beacuse one thing I’ve realised is that nothing really happens when your inside your comfort zone.

You just float about not really doing much and not really going anywhere.

Trouble is people care to much about what other people will think and say regarding their choices and decisions.

When really it’s not anyones bussiness how another human being chooses to live their life.

Grab every opportunity you are given don’t be scared of the outcome I’d rather have tried than have regrets.

I’ve got a lot planned for the next few months with weekends away, celebrations, travelling solo… Home improvements, progress alongside my blog, my music and of course spending valuable time with my two girls all alongside working.

Being postive is the key in life I’ve always been rather negative but I think I’ve changed a hell of a lot over the past 12 months they say pain changes people but it’s made me a better person so for that I thank you…

Honstly you need to look after yourself in life because no one else will do it for you.

Love to you all 😊

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️ ❤️

Out with the old in with the new.

Hey everyone hope you have all had a good weekend.

Not blogged for a few days apart from odd track I found on YouTube.

But I’m back and tommrow is a new day.

I’ve spent my weekend clearing out my home getting rid of any items that no longer serve purpose.

Why do we as humans keep so much clutter.

If it serves no purpose get rid…

I don’t always mean throw it in the bin but recycle it or pass it on whatever you feel necessary to do with it.

Declutter your home and surroundings helps you Declutter your mind.

Minimalistic as possible for me.

I absolutely hate stuff everywhere drives me insane must be beacuse I’m a virgo we like things in order and clear.

If my homes not in order my brain ends up like a teenagers bedroom all messy.

Once your start having order in your home you can then start on your mind here are…

Eight Ways to Declutter Your Mind and Free Up Mental Space

  1. Declutter Your Physical Environment. Physical clutter leads to mental clutter. …
  2. Write It Down. You don’t need to keep everything stored in your brain. …
  3. Keep a Journal. …
  4. Let Go of the Past. …
  5. Stop Multi-Tasking. …
  6. Limit the Amount of Information Coming In. …
  7. Be Decisive. …
  8. Put Routine Decisions on Auto-Pilot.


As silly as it sounds I write letters to people all the time it helps me realise what I hold in my brain takes the pressure of me.

I write my thoughts and feelings down but I never give the person the letter just stays with me until I’m ready to release what I’m holding on to.

In this process I burn the letter and Bury it in the earth.

This is known as a burning ceremony.

BURNING LETTER RITUAL

Take a fireproof bowl, your letter, a lighter or match and go outside.
Read your letter out loud, read it as if you were talking directly to that person. Use your emotions, give voice and expression to everything you have written.

Take time to feel your feelings, there is no rush, and the more energy and determination you give to this process the more powerful it becomes.
When complete, hold the letter in your hands and say out loud, I release this person and their energy from my life. I release them with gratitude and love for the universe who brings me healing.

Tear your letter into quarters, and place it in the fire proof bowl. Light it and let it burn. As you watch the flames, thank the element of fire which has burned your letter.

Bury your letter in the earth and allow the elements to take away your past issues.

Return inside and wash out your fire proof bowl. As you do this thank the element of water for washing away the dust and burned fragments left in the bowl.

Now thank the universe for allowing you to release the negative energy into the universe, and to free yourself from its power.

Ask the universe that this energy may be transformed to light and that it be a positive experience sharing healing powers with all – as we are all connected energetically, all healing work brings universal benefit.

The Letter Burning Ritual can be repeated as many time as you like about any person, situation or circumstance that causes you to experience negative feelings that you cannot on your own get clear of.

I’ve been doing this for a while all the things you can’t seem to say write it all down let your words flow then give your worries and negative thoughts to nature and the elements.

It’s been done for centuries can also ve seen as white wicca practice.

Don’t worry about the side effects there isn’t any you just simply letting go and clearing your mind.

Don’t worry about the environment either…

Paper decomposition is around two to three months I’m always thinking of the environment.

You have to get rid of the old to make way for the new.

You can’t keep holding on to things you don’t need or isn’t serving you a purpose anymore.

Clearing us always needed weither that be at home or within you.

I believe that the past changes people but there is always room for improvement.

Here’s a few items I’ve found today through home decluttering three lovely outfits I didn’t remember I had see sometimes you just need a good sort out in life…

Love to you all 😊

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️ ❤️

#seashellsandlipglossblog

Universe speaks to me again.

The signs to what we need in life are all around us you just have to open your eyes and your heart ♥

Hey everyone so happy it’s Friday 😁

Walking to work and randomly shuffle my playlist after feeling a little bit out of sorts I asked for a sign that I’m progressing forward and a song played on my playlist I didn’t even know I had on my mobile phone….

And here it is… You should be sad by halsey.

Halsey is my muse and connection to my higher self

#loveyoudoll

Click link below to listen this amazing song…

you should be sad halsey

Peace out.

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️ ❤️

Here and now.

Hey everyone.

Sorry I’ve not connected with you all.

I’ve not really found the time or energy to share anything with you all.

When I started this blog back in April 2019 my intentions was to really connect with people to express my emotions, my thoughts and to share my life with you all.

You really don’t know how much I’m thankful that people take a moment out of their own time to read what I’ve posted.

My intentions in life are always to be good to be kind and always do the right thing even if it ends up backfiring on me.

Human beings are complicated creatures.

We all have our own flaws and issues in life.

Strong points and weaknesses it’s part of being who we are.

But we all have a calling and certain aspects in life we are good at.

It’s what makes us who we are.

One thing I’ve learnt massively is to take a step back and allow the universe to deal out what’s needed to help us progress forward.

Growth is very important to a person and its needed.

Every transition in our life’s has to have a beginning and a end.

However hurtful or traumatic the ending is the universe has prepared us for what’s next and a valuable lesson has been learnt.

Change can be very scary and also stressful but your always heading to where your next life path has stared to form.

Change is needed in order to progress and be happy don’t be holding on because your comfortable….

Comfortable isn’t living or growing its holding on to what’s always been the Same.

Then nothing will ever change.

Always remember to yourself to nurture your own soul before you share your own energy beacuse you end up selling yourself short.

Love to you all 😊

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

#seashellsandlipglossblog

Perfection doesn’t exist

We are in a time right now were people expect perfection…

Perfection doesn’t exist.

From I don’t know what happened but this is the criteria for living.

Your gonna do things your gonna make mistakes your gonna fuck up.

Your suppose to learn and move forward with not what to do.

When you are ok with been flawed it means you can be fixed.

Kevin hart.

#Kevin hart

#dontf**kthisup

Level Up

Hey everyone late night blogging here from the UK.

I had a bad weekend with my anxiety it didn’t really shift much today but I’m OK.

I’m finding my way through it.

This post is about strength and the ability to grow through hard times.

Learning lessons in life that are not only essential to your growth but are inevitable.

Trying to find a balance in life is one of the most difficult things we have to deal with you give to much to your work your loved ones and not enough time is left for you.

Finding a balance is very important.

Finding something you love doing that’s where you will find your passion.

No one is perfect and we can’t progress and gain experience if we don’t….

If at first you don’t succeed try again that’s always my motto.

No one is good at something overnight even natural abilities have to gain experience and the skills to progress.

I’ve been working on a few projects over the past four months I’ve not really let anyone know too much details about my personal progression.

I’ve just being doing what I love and gaining the experience and the skills to progress forward.

One has been my music.

Singing and songwriting.

I’m also into my craft making things.

So I’ve been making my own candles and wax melts.

Which I’ve just announced to the world.

It wasn’t something I ever thought I would enjoy but I do its very therapeutic.

My other is trying my hand at my own home projects renovations and decorating.

My other is my health I’ve not long started jogging again and I really enjoy pushing myself.

I think it’s healthy to find hobbies you love in life.

That you can progress well in and that you find will help you mentally and physically.

It’s good to have distractions but also balance in life to me that’s important.

Once your done looking back you can. Only ever look forward.

And….

Love to you all 😊

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️ ❤️

#seashellsandlipglossblog

But this is all I ever was..

Evening all its Sunday and the emotional storm is clearing..

Isn’t it terrible when you feel so helpless that you don’t know what to do or say anymore.

Dark clouds fill your head with insecurities and paranoia.

I’m not bipolar in anyway I’m actually a Very focused and determined person.

That’s just been hurt a lot and I have to be honest I try and fix people who can’t be fixed maybe I care too much end up burning myself out but because I love unconditionally and care alot about people who probably don’t give me a second thought.

I think that’s where I’m going wrong.

In some funny way..

I love the past the present and the future all at once.

I’m happy I’ve lifted this dark cloud and with the help of my psychic advisor Maria I know I’m on the right path with life love and the future.

I’ve taken three himaylan salt baths yes three to shift this horrible energy around me.

When we love and love deeply we allow ourselves to be open to the elements around us.

we pick up on other peoples energy and emotional issues and if your like me you are left with trying to find a balance of helping others and helping ourselves most the time we end up putting ourselves last and then we break down.

I’ve gained strength from the darkest of places around me.

I’ve gained courage to fight after the tears.

I know I’m loved but at the moment I don’t feel very loverble.

It may seem like a front it possiblely is but when the mask drops and you reveal yourself people don’t know what to do other than talk.

I’m an open book I’m open to talk about anything in my life weither it be happy or sad times.

I’m not…

Afraid of what peoples perception of me is.

With Maria’s help today I’ve gained more clarity to what I already knew let see what happenens in the next few months…

You can’t try switch off as quick as you think you can but the universe won’t allow it more you fight more they will put you in the position your meant to be.

I want people to know it’s OK to have days where anything as simple as putting your socks on can be a task you can’t face and it’s ok to leave them dam socks on the floor.

It’s fine…

Here from an emotionally stable stacie for now just know your always enough even if you feel like your not…

I know I’ve got people who love me around me I just know I’m hard to love at times..

I have the link for my psychic adviser Maria before she’s amazing and I’m not just saying this but she really is check her out and give her a follow on her social media pages 😊😊

Maria Ann psychic medium

https://www.mariaannpsychicmedium.com/

Blogging from my bath tub again…

Love to you all

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️ ❤️

It all gets a little to much.

Heya everyone..

It’s a bit of a sad blog today im going to apologise now if you get to the end and feel the same I have your back..

Do you ever feel like your not liked or unloved?

It doesn’t matter what you do for people around you it’s never ever good enough!!

I’m in a state of fight or flight again its not beacuse I want to be but because I allow everything to bulid up inside and its the smallest thing that can force me into fight or flight mode.

Biggest down fall is that nobody actually has time for others anymore you don’t talk to people properly and even in others company that dreaded devil connection device comes out that connects us to everyone else’s life and narssastic behaviour.

I find people that are straight up talking no bullishit kind of people get less. Thought of why because we are real.

We say what others wouldn’t dare to say but then be called the bad person for what telling the truth???

Why hide, why lie, why not say how you feel.

I’ve always tried to be so nice to people I like and love I’d actually go to ends of the earth for my family and few friends I have.

I’m never fake if I don’t like someone I don’t talk to them that’s not me being nasty it’s me being real.

I’m not the best person to deal with social situations and I know I could be more open to connections but why should I change who I am so others are comfortable around me.

I’d like people to be able to trust me fully and I’d like to hope that people do.

Maybe I need to step back and let others deal with their own insecurities.

Stop trying to fix everything and everyone.

After my run this am yes something positive for me I’ve seen the clarity not everyone who smiles at you is your freind.

It’s time to put myself first for once.

At the moment I feel like I can’t breathe but that’s all on me that’s anxiety for you.

I’m taking time away from social media for a while will still be blogging hopefully but I just need a break from all the drama online and the drama in life i will have to just put my big girl pants on and suck it up get on with it.

Love you all 😊

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️ xxx