Cuppa tay!

𝕐𝕠𝕦’𝕣𝕖 𝕠𝕟𝕝𝕪 𝕝𝕚𝕞𝕚𝕥 𝕚𝕤 𝕪𝕠𝕦𝕣 𝕞𝕚𝕟𝕕

Evening everyone.

I hope you’re well.

Tonight I wanted to blog about a topic that I feel is very important to someone who is just trying to simply get somewhere in life.

When I started blogging in April 2019 i started out with the intention of just reaching out to the world and hoping someone would listen.

People blog for all sorts of reasons and each one is unique and important.

Human thought process is a tricky subject because some people find it easier to express emotions through writing rather than actual face to face interaction.

It’s just how it is.

I’m speaking for the majority of people here who are just simply content in living their own lives.

At the end of the day we are all just trying to make something out of our lives.

The trouble is some people like others to fit inside the box as soon as you start to evolve you find out who your true friends really are.

Progress doesn’t change a human, ego changes humans.

You can remain humble but also be successful without the ego.

Some of the most incredibly talented people we’re deemed insane for just simply thinking outside the box.

Take One of the most influential scientists in history, Isaac Newton who was also one of the quirkiest scientists ever known.

People thought he was as mad as a box of frogs when it came to his experiments but his findings where remarkable.

He went on to do amazing things.

What I’m trying to say is that nothing changes if you allow the thoughts and opinions of others stand in you way of success

Some people won’t understand your journey and that’s ok it’s not meant for them it’s you’re path.

Never ever give up opportunites just through fear of what others think.

Not everyone is meant to understand you or like you.

Just do your thing without seeking validation from others.

The only opinion you should listen to is your own.

I’ve grown after dealing with constant issues with my own self growth who I’ve become doesn’t affect my ability to care and show love for others it just shows me how important it is to give some of that love back to myself.

And for that I will never be sorry for.

Great things don’t come from same old places it comes from change and self love.

Whatever your doing in life to progress and evolve be proud of yourself and know that you supported yourself in times when others didn’t.

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Love to you all

Stay strong and humble

Stacie 💪❤️❤️💕

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𝕀𝕟𝕥𝕖𝕣𝕥𝕨𝕚𝕟𝕖𝕕

This is a story of two souls intertwined .

It tells a tale of one in love and one who left everything behind.

The stars are out said the boy to the girl.

As he gazed upon her bright green eyes and her dark haired curls.

The girl sensed his gaze upon her skin.
She sat quietly and whispered
Only if you would let me in.

Her heart was open and her hopes were high.

She knew after that evening it would be goodbye.

He had dreams of travel his heart full of fire.
He had passion charisma and desire.

She told him to follow his heart and live out his dreams.

She couldn’t help but think what could have been.

The boy turned to asked her why do you like me as such.

I can’t possibly answer she said there’s far to much.

Maybe it was his love for music and passion and drive.

Or how he made her feel so alive.

But I’m just a boy he said to the girl.

The girl simply replied yes you are but your my world.

The skies were clear and the stars were bright.

All upon that fateful night.

As she took a deep breath and stared into his blue eyes.

I’m really not good at goodbyes.

She loosen her grip and turned head.

Things where left there and unsaid.

She walked away and didn’t glance back.
She went on her way and left him to pack.

In her mind he was her true love and that she did know.

But this was his journey and he needed to go.

The boy moved on so did the girl.
But he knew deep down he was still her world.

Just as the sun meets the earth at night.
When it’s dark and there is no light.

When her body is tired but her souls awake.
She thinks of the memories her heart starts to break.

It’s not easy to break free and for the love to be gone
But the girl kept telling herself you just have to move on.

Stacie Leanne 14/04/2020

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𝕋𝕒𝕜𝕖 𝕋𝕙𝕖 ℝ𝕚𝕤𝕜 𝕆𝕣 𝕃𝕠𝕠𝕤𝕖 𝕋𝕙𝕖 ℂ𝕙𝕒𝕟𝕔𝕖.

Evening all.

Sending my love to you all.

I normally blog late at night but I’ve decided to blog slightly earlier today.

Tonight’s post is all about taking a risk and how I have overcome my fear of the unknown.

First of all I wanted to say a massive thank you all for your love and support it means the world to me.

I look back and realise how far I’ve come.

Back in April 2019 I hit the sign up button and I’ve never looked back.

I’m no longer a voice that no one hear’s.

I’m no longer alone with my thoughts in my mind.

And oh my life how I’ve released fear and blockages that have held me back.

I can say if people from my past saw me now I’m 100% convinced they really wouldn’t recognise me.

I’m not the same person.

Yes I still have my demons but I now keep them on a tight lead.

When the past doesn’t hurt you anymore that’s when you know you’ve healed.

I don’t look back and feel sad anymore, I look back and smile because everything I went through made me a stronger person.

And I still remember the good memories instead of all the hurt.

When we are presented with a genuine offer most of us panic and think of what could go wrong before we even give the opportunity a chance.

It leaves us wanting to run away..

Fear stops us from reaching our potential.

Everyday we are evolving and learning in fact we never stop learning and experiencing.

There isn’t a single soul on this earth that know’s everything.

When your given an opportunity you need to think about these three things.

1. Not what if but why not..

Stop thinking negative if things don’t work out then you can change and learn from the experience but at least you won’t have regrets.

Living with regrets can mentally distroy you.

2. What’s to loose.

You need to think what will this outcome bring to me what can I achieve from taking a risk.

Taking a leap of faith is a huge step into moving forward.

Nothing changes the past but staying optimistic and postive can have massive impact on your future plans.

3. You will win some you will loose some.

Failure is a bitter pill to swollow but sometimes we have to understand even if we take a risk it doesn’t always work in our favour.

But least you tried and you won’t live with the not knowing.

I can not stress enough if you loosen the fear reigns you will be surprised at what you attract into your life.

I used to be a full introvert but now I’m coming more out of myself and showing the world I mean business.

I’ve turned my pain into my progress and I’ve achieved so much just from letting go of fear.

And you will too if you just take that leap of faith ❤️

Tonight I’m toasting to my success and hard work 😁

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Love to you all.

Stacie ❤️💕❤️💕

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💋𝕁𝕦𝕤𝕥 𝔹𝕖 ℝ𝕖𝕒𝕝 💋

Evening all ❤️I’m starting of tonights blog on a positive note because its all about the positivity and being your true self.

It’s very rare to find real people to connect with by real I mean the types of people who are straight up no strings bullshit attached

Say it as it is.

Here’s the thing when you find yourself in a tough situation with another human being its difficult to try and come to terms with their reaction and behaviour.

In an instant they will completely forget everything you ever did that was kind or nice for them.

And they will only see the bad situation surrounding the connection the good won’t matter anymore.

Two adults should be able to sit and sort through differences with out acting like two kids in a playground.

Not everyone has to be an enemy.

If people actually take the time to think and work through problems the world would be a much better functioning place.

I’ve tried so many times to fix others I’ve forgotten to fix myself.

Let me tell you being honest doesn’t always make people think highly of you some people don’t want to hear the truth.

Beacause they see no errors in their way of life.

You can’t fix a connection if the other party isn’t taking half the responsibility for the issues surrounding you both.

There’s no smoke without fire.

I used to get so wrapped up in what other people thought of me I lost a little bit of myself each day trying to hide who I really was.

Now I just don’t care anymore I’m my authentic self and I’m trying to make my mark on the world.

Some people won’t like you for being real but don’t forget that comes from their own insecurities.

I’m not happy all the time.

But the one thing I will always be is honest.

I’m too tired for games, being scared of offending anyone & hiding the real me to make others feel comfortable.

Give me real honest communication any day.

A good connection is based on complete honesty.

If you feel you can’t be honest with either partners or freinships maybe it’s not meant to be.

I respect people more for being real.

Love to you all.

Stacie 💋💕❤️💕❤️

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ℕ𝕠 𝕄𝕠𝕣𝕖 𝔻𝕣𝕒𝕞𝕒

Evening all 💕❤️

Two blogs in one day I’m spoiling you all.

Tonights topic is all about drama and how life and people can pull you into all different situations.

It’s all about how you react to a situation.

Tonight I just want to give some clear advice this is coming from someone who’s always dealt with these kind tough situations.

Like most people I’ve had my fair share of heartache and problems some I’ve caused myself some have been caused by others.

Let’s start with me and how I have sometimes caused my own drama.

I’m an introvert I overthink everything it can cause me to have anxiety attacks if I dwell on situations for to long.

Instead of me finding a rational explanation I will act on impulse and either do something I instantly regret.

Or say something that I haven’t really thought about before saying it and then it’s too late it’s been said.

I’m also too honest which doesn’t always work in my favour.

As I get older I’m having to change my way of thinking and how I approach situations that I feel uncomfortable about.

It still doesn’t stop me shutting down and pushing others away.

That’s just my stubborn behaviour.

But im learning that not every situation needs a negative response.

Sometimes not every situation needs a reaction at all.

Now let’s talk about the elephant in the room.

Other people….

Let me just say this clearly whatever you do or say to someone else you need to realise that you will never be able to control their actions or response.

You can’t control what they think of you it’s completely up to the person in question how they perceive you.

But what you are in control of is how much emotion you invest into a situation.

We as humans will never be able to fully understand each other.

We aren’t wired the same way mentally we are physically but not mentally you cannot control other people’s views of you.

Some will like you and find your personality traits amazing.

Some people just get on better than other’s.

It’s just human nature.

Some will find you annoying egotistical possibly can’t stand to be around you and everything you say will always be wrong.

You can’t please everyone.

And never try to understand why people do the things they do.

If it comes from malace my best advice would be to just simply not engage it’s not worth it leave them to it.

Don’t walk your path with hate just simply let it go.

These are karmic lessons on not to make same mistakes twice.

But never ever let anyone stop you from progressing by dragging you into unnecessary drama.

I have no time for it.

I’ve let alot go from my past I’m only ever going forward.

Remember you can’t control the person or situation but you can change how you react to it.

P. S be kind, be beautiful, be you

Love to you all.

Stacie 💕❤️💕❤️💋

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One last thing Just a little song for you all below 👇👇

No more drama Mary j bilge

𝕊𝕠 𝕄𝕦𝕔𝕙 𝕎𝕠𝕣𝕝𝕕 𝕊𝕠 𝕃𝕚𝕥𝕥𝕝𝕖 𝕋𝕚𝕞𝕖.

Good morning all.

I hope you have all had a good weekend.

I’ve decided to do a little post about one of my goals I would like to complete in my lifetime.

I’ve always had a passion to travel but I’ve always been held back by situations I’ve found myself in.

Before my world goes dark I would love to see a few place’s around the world.

My inspiration actually comes from watching travels with my father.

The fact I’ve watched it four times should tell me something.

It’s not that I’ve never wanted to travel before hand but it’s not been a big deal for me.

I have a realistic list of where I would like to travel.

It’s great to have future goals & to experience things in life.

And the world is bigger than where you are.

I have a ten year realistic plan of where I would like to travel to.

Here’s my bucket list below.

1. Ireland

2. Santorini Greece

3. Rome Italy

4. Budapest

5. Venice

6. Northern Lights Iceland

The last few on my list are my dream locations.

7. Las Vegas

8. New York

9. Bali

10. Seychelles

I know if work hard enough I can get wherever I need to be.

To have dreams & goals in life doesn’t seem ludicrous to me it’s what makes us who we are and the more memories we make the better and whoever we meet on the way is a true blessing.

I hope you have enjoyed a glimpse into my wanderlust plans for the future.

Love to you all

Stacie ♥️💕♥️💕

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ℙ𝕣𝕖𝕥𝕥𝕪 𝕝𝕚𝕥𝕥𝕝𝕖 𝕥𝕙𝕚𝕟𝕘 ℍ𝕒𝕦𝕝

Good afternoon all.

I hope your all OK

Today’s post is in relation to my pretty little thing Haul so it’s strictly fashion.

I have three main online retailers that I purchase from one is boohoo, nasty girl and pretty little thing.

My favourite online retailer at the moment is pretty little thing.

One of the most rewarding thing about losing weight is you get to purchase from a normal collection rather than plus size collection.

I find clothes fit me so much better.

I literally get lots of emails regarding discounts, free delivery and online sales.

I have to admit I’m a bit weak when it comes to spending.

To be honest I’ve got a bit of an addiction.

Today’s Haul was another impulse buy.

First item was the Black Strappy Jersey Wrap Tie Waist Jumpsuit

I have a big collection of black clothing it has to be my favourite colour.

It can be dressed down or worn with heels for a night on the town.

And its on sale for… £9
Link is below.

https://www.prettylittlething.com/black-strappy-jersey-wrap-tie-waist-jumpsuit.html

My second Haul item is an comfortable lounge set i purchased just for around the home I have to be honest the bottoms fit perfectly but because I really haven’t lost much chest side the top was slightly more reveling that I would of liked but I’m at home so who cares….

This item came with cropped bottoms and top surprisingly they’re both comfortable.

Both retailing at…£13

Link below.

https://www.prettylittlething.com/prettylittlething-grey-marl-bralet-and-crop-legging-set.html

Overall I’m happy with my Haul thanks to pretty little thing for great items and quick delivery.

Lots of love.

Stacie 💕♥️💕

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𝕎𝕙𝕖𝕟 𝕥𝕙𝕖 𝕙𝕖𝕒𝕣𝕥 𝕥𝕣𝕦𝕝𝕪 𝕦𝕟𝕕𝕖𝕣𝕤𝕥𝕒𝕟𝕕𝕤, 𝕚𝕥 𝕝𝕖𝕥’𝕤 𝕘𝕠 𝕠𝕗 𝕖𝕧𝕖𝕣𝕪𝕥𝕙𝕚𝕟𝕘.

Evening all ❤️

Sending out virtual hugs to you all.

Tonight i wanted to give you all a little bit of an update on myself.

And go through explaining the process of how I’ve started to turn my life around.

Firstly you will see from previous blogs that i have been put through an emotional whirlwind past few months.

Finally the times are changing.

Since gaining my confidence back I’ve been working on other area’s of my life.

Having a bit of an emotional clear out is what I needed.

As you start changing old patterns in you life you will see both blessings and true colors of others around you.

We don’t see that others can actually hold us back instead of helping us grow.

Until we start to make drastic changes in life.

As sad as it seems sometimes we just outgrow people, places and situations thats life.

Thank them for being apart of your journey and move on.

I know it maybe hard to understand that Selflove is important, you must remember to nurture yourself aswell as giving to others.

I’ve had to change because i couldn’t carry on down the path of self destruction.

Change the mindset and you will receive.

I’ve had a lot of people try and put me down just for simply trying to be me.

But not anymore I’ve made changes im just not the same person as I used to be.

Change has to occur to allow us to grow.

Now I’ve started changing my mindset I’ve started to attract positivity to my life and thing’s have really started to progress for me.

Im currently a brand influencer to three brands and the list is growing daily.

Bohogirljewellery.com

Xquizit Attire

Sexy lingerie

I’m super excited to be a part of such great brands.

I also continue to support local businesses and national businesses.

Im also part of a fantastic blogging team called fashion potluck i was selected by their panel to join.

Soon im hoping to be doing vlogging.

And of course more singing and song writing.

Ans im also designing some of own clothing range.

I’m very happy at the moment i don’t have time to sit and dwell on the past.

When my future is looking so busy.

Just a little bit of positive engery and a clearer mind can attract a better future.

Until next time….

Love to you all 😊

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️ ❤️

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𝕊𝕠𝕞𝕖𝕥𝕚𝕞𝕖𝕤 𝕥𝕙𝕖 𝕣𝕚𝕘𝕙𝕥 𝕥𝕙𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕥𝕠 𝕕𝕠 𝕚𝕤 𝕥𝕙𝕖 𝕙𝕒𝕣𝕕𝕖𝕤𝕥 𝕥𝕙𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕥𝕠 𝕕𝕠.

Afternoon all.

I hope you are all well.

I wanted to blog this afternoon about a question ive been asked many times but I’ve always dodged to answer it just because i didn’t know how to respond with a valid answer.

How do you do the right thing even when you know its going to be one of the hardest things you have had to ever do.

Like i have said ive always dodged this question when i get asked by readers just because it hit’s home hard for me.

Letting fear overtake your judgement can sometimes steer you away from the right choices.

We sometimes choose the easier option just because its less effort or it will cause less dramatic consequence’s in our life’s

Everyone likes a peaceful life right ????

I hate that saying i just put up with it for a peaceful life.

Why do you put up with rubbish situations , friendship’s & relationship’s just for an easier life.

You know your blocking something that can completely turn your life around.

Think of your life as a box full of clutter from the past & present you know some crap is useful ,some crap is what your holding on to just in case its of any use,but the other is just stuff you need to detach yourself from you need to let that go chuck it in the fuck it bucket and move on don’t drag it into your future.

And even though that box maybe hard to sort through it’s got to be done.

Doing the right thing isn’t always what we want to do, change can be painful letting go can be painful.

But life will never progress if you keep taking the easiest way out.

I want to be sitting in my arm chair when im in my 80’s surrounded by memories and have wisdom and stories to tell my grandkids that i lived an great life had taken risk’s and loved hard and not having any regrets.

I’m not ok with living just an ok life i want to actually make a difference so that is what i will do.

You see you have to progress & build up courage to take a leap of faith.

Living with regret is one of the hardest pill to swallow trust me.

How do you know if you’re making he right choice is another question for another blog but the short answer to that is we don’t know we just have to trust our instinct’s and take a leap of faith.

You will recover and bounce back from making choices that could rock your world but either way its a learning curve in life.

Everything takes time if the change is good and its been tough you can be proud of the risk you had taken and if the change breaks your heart your moving on to bigger and better things and you will heal .

Love to you all

Stacie

xxx

𝔽𝕖𝕖𝕕 𝕐𝕠𝕦𝕣 𝕆𝕨𝕟 𝔼𝕘𝕠 𝕀’𝕞 𝔹𝕦𝕤𝕪.

Evening all ❤️
I really hope you are all ok.

Isn’t it funny when you find out information that you once expected it to crush your soul now it actually doesn’t!!!

But now after everything it makes you realise that i wasn’t all to blame in the situation and if someone could just forget another human being as quickly as they have done makes them heartless not you.

In both freindship and relationships you don’t just share a bond you understand each other and share time together.
Things do go wrong from Time to time
But you have to prepare yourself for the worst.

Im not going to kick myself anymore.
I’ve been Kicked down enough.

I was worried about doing something i love this week and that includes my blogging.
But if people read it great if not who cares.
Im blunt, im honest, im passionate & im loving.
But i dont think its fair for me to give into other peoples opinion of me and to stop doing something i love.

Just so other people feel happier about themselves. .

You should never allow someone to silence you with fear of telling the truth.

Truth is very hard to come by.

My life has been none stop lately i haven’t had time to catch my breath.

But when we get told information we might not want to hear it can be upsetting and hard to process but what you need to understand is that situations are out of our control.

People manipulate others into thinking their in the wrong even if their not it’s all about shifting the blame and guilt.

Theirs apart of my past im not going to give anymore air time.

Im completely done with the old me and my old way’s.

I started this blog in aid of me being my own therapist & helping others.
Not to feed someone ego.

When someone truly hurts you and walks away like you deserved it….

Leave them to it and focus on you.
You will see yourself evolve in ways that you never dreamt of and if they do come back make them work for a space in your life and your heart.

Love to you all 😊 😊
Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️
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