Evening all ❤️I’m starting of tonights blog on a positive note because its all about the positivity and being your true self.
It’s very rare to find real people to connect with by real I mean the types of people who are straight up no strings bullshit attached
Say it as it is.
Here’s the thing when you find yourself in a tough situation with another human being its difficult to try and come to terms with their reaction and behaviour.
In an instant they will completely forget everything you ever did that was kind or nice for them.
And they will only see the bad situation surrounding the connection the good won’t matter anymore.
Two adults should be able to sit and sort through differences with out acting like two kids in a playground.
Not everyone has to be an enemy.
If people actually take the time to think and work through problems the world would be a much better functioning place.
I’ve tried so many times to fix others I’ve forgotten to fix myself.
Let me tell you being honest doesn’t always make people think highly of you some people don’t want to hear the truth.
Beacause they see no errors in their way of life.
You can’t fix a connection if the other party isn’t taking half the responsibility for the issues surrounding you both.
There’s no smoke without fire.
I used to get so wrapped up in what other people thought of me I lost a little bit of myself each day trying to hide who I really was.
Now I just don’t care anymore I’m my authentic self and I’m trying to make my mark on the world.
Some people won’t like you for being real but don’t forget that comes from their own insecurities.
I’m not happy all the time.
But the one thing I will always be is honest.
I’m too tired for games, being scared of offending anyone & hiding the real me to make others feel comfortable.
Give me real honest communication any day.
A good connection is based on complete honesty.
If you feel you can’t be honest with either partners or freinships maybe it’s not meant to be.
I respect people more for being real.
Love to you all.