Heya all ❤️
I hope your having a good evening.
This evening im hollering at everyone whoever feels caught up in their own head and find themselves battling a dark cloud of insecurities.
When i started my blog back in April 2019 I wasn’t sure if anyone would actually read it yet alone relate to it.
I’ve had people say to me in the past that i wouldn’t be any good at writing because my english isn’t fantastic and my spelling and punctuation is rubbish.
Well here i am im still going and least i admit that im not fantastic.
My blog posts are raw, truthful and direct because that’s who i am in person.
If people don’t like what i write that’s fine by me because aslong as im truthful and i hold my hands up to my mistakes.
Then i know i will always bring the right type of reader to my blog.
Tonight’s blog is definitely a 🔞 because i do sometimes use language that isn’t appropriate for people who are easily offended.
You’re probably wondering about the blog title but it fits perfectly with tonights topic.
So here it goes if you dont like cussing don’t read on….
Have you tried so hard at something in life and it starts paying off weither it be a personal goal or something that you have never had the confidence to do then you finally get of your butt and make it happen.
And you feel better in yourself psychically, mentally and Soul fully.
You feel as if you have a good support network around you.
Because people who are supposed to love us are suppose to want the best for us.
Im not saying that everyone turns out to be this way.
But you find when you start to turn your frown upside down and actually start feeling remotely human.
Some one comes in like a huge..
Leaves their negative attitude and insecurities on you then.
Just struts away like a pigeon that’s just shit all over your favourite sandwich. making you feel like a quivering wreak in the dark corners of your mind.
Inside your screaming at yourself not to give in.
Its very easy for an enemy to mask themselves as a person who has your best intentions at heart.
And to be honest ive been through this myself a few times.
It never hurts any less just to pre warn you.
You just grow thicker skin.
As we grow and evolve we outgrow our old souls and we outgrow people and life paths.
And thats perfectly fine.
We dont need a shit storm everytime we make progress.
You need to remind yourself…
You need to do what’s best for you and sometimes that might mean upsetting someone else in the process.
People will always talk but make sure the people who are in your circle are the ones rowing the boat not drilling holes.
Leave them to fight there own demons.
But what you must not do is loose sight of your own goals just because someone doesn’t support your choices.
Don’t let their insecurities becomes your burden.
Dont let them put you in a situation that you must put up and shut up and not speak your truth.
Your not a follower your the star in this Broadway show we call life.
Dont be victimised into not living the life you deserve.
And if they turn round and say…
Tell them you don’t fucking want to.
Dont ever be anything less than your authentic self.
And if you ever find yourself a victim of other’s insecurities its time to cut ties and move on.
You can’t be both bold and someone’s emotional punching bag.
Humans can be incredibly mean to each other.
Remember the ones who support you and love you will show nothing less than happiness for your success.
They wont pick at your faults or drain your soul.
Its time to 👇👇👇👇
And show them you mean bussiness.
Stay strong everyone. 🌈
In a world where you can be anything be kind.
Love to you all 😊
Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️ ❤️ ❤️