10 steps to completely changing your life for the better.

Evening all ❤️

Hope you are all well.

I just wanted to share with you ten steps that I feel will work in completely change your life for the better.

So straight to it

1. You need to establish what and who are important in your life.

What do they or the situation bring to your life is it warmth and kindness, support & love.

Or does the person in question or does the situation in question bring you stress and worry, heartbreak & anxiety.

Cut it off cut the cord that ties you to the situation or the negative people that surround you don’t give your precious energy to a situation or a person who doesn’t deserve It.

2. Detox from social media completely remove yourself from the whole situation and pointless scrolling through people’s unessary behaviour.

People only share with the world what they choose to share you don’t see dark times in a person’s life unless they are very open to talking about their experiences with the world.

You don’t need validation from the world that your a good person.

I’ve found the less you care what people think of you the easier life will become.

A total detox is needed to allow yourself to heal and remove the negativity completely.


3. Focus on you and what makes you happy it’s very easy to get wrapped up in other people’s lives and situations but in all honesty if your own vessels is taking hits for other people how are you allowing time to yourself to enjoy your own life.

Trying to find an outlet is hard after so long of putting up with other peoples rubbish and negative emotions.

But I find singing, drawing, writing and having things to mentally distract you starts the healing process we are not then thinking what if and what will they think.

The focus needs to start from home and within.

4. Speak up with honesty and stop holding back what you think.

People may believe that honesty won’t win you many friends–but even if that were true, the friends you make with honesty will be the right ones. Honesty is the cornerstone of all success, without which confidence and the ability to perform cannot exist.

5. Forgive those who have hurt you but change who you surround yourself with.

You can improve your life just by changing the people you surround yourself with. If there are some who have brought negativity or hurt into your life, accept that those actions cannot be changed or undone or forgotten–only forgiven. Take it as a lesson learned and surround yourself with people who support you, guide you and make you better than you already are.


7. Nurture your mind with great thoughts, for you will never go higher than you think.

What you think is what you become. And the sad truth is that that most of us are our own worst enemy, allowing our negative thoughts to hold us back. If you load up on positivity and great thoughts, you can create positive and great things for yourself. If you want to change and change fast, start by changing how you think.

8. Find success at the edge of your comfort zone.

Regardless of our hesitation or fear, humans need change to be happy. Try to do something you’ve never done every single day. Don’t be afraid to try new things and stand in your discomfort zone. If you want something you’ve never had, you have to do something you’ve never done.

9. Remember that it’s not how many mistakes you’ve made but what you learn from them that defines you.

Accept that you won’t always make the right decisions. You’ll screw up, sometimes badly. But your mistakes doesn’t mean you’ve failed, only that you’re trying and learning in life. If you are not making mistakes it means you are not trying hard enough. When you learn from them, mistakes have the power to turn you into something better than you were before.

10. Don’t compare your own life with anyone else’s.

A big source of unhappiness is the idea that other people’s lives are better or easier than yours. But when you compare your situation to that of others, you’re comparing your complete reality to their surface. No matter how fantastic, how happy, how brilliant everything may seem on the outside, you never know what’s going on the inside If you find yourself being jealous of someone, remember that person has struggled with hardships and insecurities just as you have.


I hope you take note of this post and know your a fabulous human being and its your God given right to protect yourself and your wellbeing.

Love to yo all 😘

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️


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Hi I'm Stacie I'm 34 busy mum from the West Midlands 🇬🇧 Started blogging April 2019 I hope you like my blog posts

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