Evening all ❤️
To celebrate the return of the Netflix series You I’ve decided to do a little blog post.
For those who have not seen it your totally missing out…
Here is a little discription of what the first series was about.
What would you do for love?
For a brilliant male bookstore manager who crosses paths with an aspiring female writer, this question is put to the test.
A charming yet awkward crush becomes something even more sinister when the writer becomes the manager’s obsession.
Using social media and the internet, he uses every tool at his disposal to become close to her, even going so far as to remove any obstacle –including people — that stands in his way of getting to her.
Sounds creepy right things like this only happen for our viewing pleasure right…
Well your wrong.
I have been on receiving end of both sides being stalked and being called a stalker believe me neither of them is very nice.
The Internet is a wonderful place for humans to learn to grow to connect further than what we anticipate but it’s also a dark and sinister place.
When you share your life with millions of people you don’t realise how much information your giving freely.
This is something I didn’t take to lightly when I started blogging.
You think sharing a nice selfie or sharing your thoughts would just be innocent but to millions of people it can be interpreted many ways.
So let’s start with the stalker well it used to freak me out but now I find it quite sad for the person involved having an addiction to someone can be just as bad as drugs or alcohol abuse.
You can try and ignore block and try and move on with life but for that person temptation is always there curiousty gets the better of you.
It’s not fun for neither that are involved.
When I decided to blog I did think about the impact it would have on others.
But I couldn’t just give up because of the worry about upsetting people this is my life I couldn’t get my voice heard any other way so I decided to just go ahead with it.
I’m very technical headed I know my way around a computer but in no way will I be working for nasa in the future but I definitely understand alot about hidden ip’s and ways around hiding your true self online.
That’s the geek in me….
But anyway you can’t try and fool a smart women I see you taking a peek and honesty it’s not going to put me off my blogging.
I never disclose my location untill I’ve been and returned home.
I’m safety smart.
But honestly it’s not cool to have your every move watched and analysised by someone lurking in the shadows.
I’m more open than what people think if you want to know something and I’m comfortable with giving you an answer to your question then I will but if I’m not comfortable I will say.
That’s just me….
On to me being called a stalker….
We this I didn’t take lightly because it wasn’t me actually stalking I had been ghosted infact it had happened a few times by the same confused person.
I don’t actually think mine was stalking I’ve been stalked before it’s not nice so I wouldn’t want anyone else to go through it.
Mine was more a state of confusion of why what happened.. What did I do that was so wrong, why didn’t they like me.
Me being a virgo I needed to know well least to say I never did get the proper answer to why things went down the way they did.
So I just decided to drop it no point keep going over old ground.
No one likes rejection or to think there not good enough for soneone but instead of being honest people run away hide and block people of course your going to go a bit cuckoo trying to figure it all out.
You send the odd email or social friend request that’s not stalking.
Fake profiles, constant phone calls and messages and hiding who you are online to peep is stalking.
Not trying to find out why you wasn’t good enough for someone you fell in love with.
I just wanted to make that perfectly clear.
If my blog makes you uncomfortable please don’t read it I don’t make anyone click my link you do that out of your own curiosity.
Honestly I would recommend you watch you on Netflix it’s onto its second series now so if you haven’t seen it please watch from the start that’s what a real stalker is.
Stay smart stay safe..
Love to you all 😊
Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 xxx