Another late night blog I always find this time if night hard to switch off.
It’s 12.08am here in the UK.
And I’m alone with my thoughts…
I was having a serious conversation today with a friend of mine about love and how life works in mysterious ways.
One of the questions I was asked was do you actually need and want a man?
My answer was this I’ve never needed a man I don’t need to fill a void I’m pretty much independent within myself to know I can achieve what you need to achieve in life.
This alone can be intimating to a man a strong independent woman like myself would always choose a partner to share life with not through desperation but through choice.
Do I value my own self worth.
If you would of asked me that two years ago I would of said no…
But now I absolutely do believe in myself and I have respect for myself.
Benching or breadcrumbing to me is a big no no keeping someone hanging on whist you seek other options is a pretty shitty thing to do.
If you don’t value that person enough to be honest then just let them go.
I’m certainly not someones back up plan neither should you be.
Being a virgo we know what we want and how to get it.
I’m loyal I prefer quality over quantity any day I completely dispise needy partnership I see it as a weaknesses.
If a Virgo is in a relationship with you, it’s because they truly want to be. ..not beacuse they need to be.
We are very strong independent people always remember that but we are completely loyal.
You should never settle for just being OK your not someone’s option your a human being don’t allow people to give you breadcrumbs beacuse they are not sure what to do next.
Actions speaks louder than words.
I would like to add that I’ve not been no angel in the past when it comes to love but I can honstly hold my hands up to my faults and I’ve learnt a lot from my mistakes.
So always remember you deserve more than breadcrumbs you deserve the world.
Love to you all 😊
Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️ ❤️