Does it really ever matter what other people think??

Now that’s a question and a half..

With this blog ladies and gents hits one of my top ten pet hates with the human society.

Are we pretty enough are we skinny enough do we look happy, do I look rich.

Yes the digital age where women spend most there time looking at pictures of perfect size 0 models looking incredible whist looking in the mirror and completely hating ourselves.

So here’s the thing I have to admit I used to be one of those women who was just dying to be skinny, who wanted to be accepted into society for being an average sized women.

Well my body has taken on some pretty serious battles over the past 13 years my weight has fluctuated over the time from really skinny and looking like Jack whitehall.

To piling on the weight after my first child.

It’s taken me nearly 9 years to steady my weightloss and to keep it off.

I’ve always been told I’m not skinny enough I could do with loosing weight I’m not pretty enough.

I’ve dealt with rejection and betrayal over my appearance I was once told by an ex that If I lost a bit of weight i would be more prettier.

OK so that was his opinion but you know what…, 🖕 you.

I was good enough it’s not nice to put others down In Life we are supposed to support and protect each other.

I’ve realised Ive ruined so many chances of something good because of my own insecurity.

Due to my past experiences I just wasn’t strong enough to say enough is enough.

But now I think this 👇👇👇👇

And I still stand by this even more so now.

Even though my body is still changing due to health reasons I’m learning to love myself a little bit more each day.

So I wanted to share this with you all in the hope it will make you realise that your wonderful just the way you are.

In life Everyone goes through a transition its a sense of becoming a better person, you realise that you have been taking people’s negative crap for far to long.

Best thing you can do is in life is to love yourself for you & stop trying to be a sheep & follow the flock life’s way to short.

Who cares if you have stretch marks from having babies girl you did something amazing you brought life into this world and that takes strength.

So what If you like a donut every now and again.

So what If you don’t have a thigh gap.

So what if your skins not perfect.

So what if you like messy bun no make up chilling with your sweat pants on days.

My eyebrows don’t even make an appearance on those days.

No one’s perfect always remember that.

The whole point of this blog is to spread love to every women out there and man who’s feeling pressured by society and soical media.

Remember they only post what they want people to see don’t feel pressured to follow suit just be you.

And if you want to make a positive change in your life a healthy mind leads to a healthy body.

A Positive mind leads to great things

Sending positive vibes to you all…

Stacie xx

Published by seashellslipgloss87

Hi I'm Stacie I'm 34 busy mum from the West Midlands 🇬🇧 Started blogging April 2019 I hope you like my blog posts

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